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47 Ottawa, Ontario, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 5
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Graduated from university
Has a kid
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I am smarter than the average bear. I'm ggg and open minded - not simple minded. I had my kiddo later in life so I am not able to flit off at a moment's notice. I have my priorities straight and I abhor brussel sprouts. I think all people are created equal and that everyone deserves equal rights - not separate - equal! I believe in social justice, personal responsibility and the principal of Occam's razor. I can't go see a movie at a theater without consuming popcorn. Star Trek before Star Wars. Sundays = breakfast out.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a pretty great life, good job, wonderful child and lifelong friends. I work for a local not-for-profit organization and I'm lucky to say that after 20+ years I still love my job. I'm a single mom and that takes up a lot of my free time but I'd like to carve out space for a more personal connection with a partner. I'm not in a hurry to jump into a serious relationship but that is my end goal. I think healthy relationships take time to develop.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Honesty, Scrabble, being a Mom, making reservations as opposed to cooking (ok, I can technically cook...but it is not passion of mine), map reading, playing Devil's advocate, reading aloud, defending something I believe in.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I smile a lot. I'm opinionated but very much interested in what you have to say. I'm sarcastic but not mean. I'm adventurous and open-minded.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Stand, The 9 parts of Desire, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Sliding Doors, Widow's Peak, Trainspotting, Anything Star Trek or Sci Fi ish...Bad sci fi is better than no sci fi, Depeche Mode, Mumford & Sons, Divine Fits, Florence & the Machine, Jimmy George.

Food...Thai, Indian, SUSHI!, french fries, pretty much anything except heavy doses of Chinese or Pho. Love the Lonestar, or a good peanut butter and banana sandwich.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My child, knowledge, healthy discourse, beer, sunshine, library card and toilet paper. Yes...I can count but I'm an over achiever on lists.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where has common sense gotten to??? Will a new Apple product come out before my contract is up? Why on earth is there not a new version of the Star Trek Franchise on tv yet??? On what level did I park my car? God I hope I live to 100 so I can see what gets invented next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with my offspring or going to a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I had beer and cotton candy for dinner tonight...this can't be good.
You should message me if
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Like me, you want a monogamous relationship. You have a profile picture...seriously, you are on a dating site...not an MI5 recruiting website, put up a public picture already! You live in/near Ottawa. I'm way too old to want a penpal...You don't describe yourself as "looking younger" etc - be ok with whatever age you are --- that is sexy - not desperately trying to be 10 years younger than you are. You get along well with kids and animals. Your friends/co-workers would describe you as a down to earth, a really good guy. You are intelligent but can be goofy. You believe in equal rights for all, of course including LGBT. You are not looking for someone to "complete you". I am complete, I hope you are too...