November 1, 2009--
OK.....Perhaps time for an update:
To date, I have gone through 25 "meet and greets"...while that number may sound alarming and scary all on it's own....it's not. Ok, ok....maybe it is.... a little. The majority of the "meet and greets" lacked the chemistry needed.....Although some were "nice", some were "horrid"-- *shudder*-- and a VERY RARE FEW.... were actual pleasant and full of "possibilities"......yet....
Mr. Perfect for me, has still been alluded.

I am a HAPPY person by nature, I enjoy humor, laughter and sharing that laughter with another. (don't worry, I'm told my voice is nice and my laugh does not sound like a seal) ...

I'm not easily "wow'd" ....

Probably the closest I have come to finding a great match on here, was to the man who while in an antique shop together......opened a drawer of an old vintage cabinet.....and breathed in deep. aahhhhh.....Gosh, May have fallen in love a lil bit over that one.....lol --but seriously....that action, was all about passion for something loved. Some of you will understand that....and for some, it will simply be lost.

I have been single for most of the past three years. That's a lot of time to give some thought to what I want, need and desire in a relationship.
I welcome a partner, a confidant, I seek a man who I will be MAD about....and NOT MAD at! I don't sweat the small stuff and one of the biggest obstacle I have found with the men met online...... is the lack of chemistry, physical attraction felt upon meeting them. Without attraction....tell me, how can we have passion??

We go through the motions of emails, IM's, and move onto texting and phone conversations and all the while subconsciously, my active mind/imagination is creating a MASTERPIECE......yep, you guessed it, upon meeting.... the puzzle piece I have mentally created.....no longer fits the puzzle.
Pity...but true.

Random interests: museums, wine, antiques. vintage homes. travel sightseeing, foreign films, indie films, followed by more wine, with the occasional beer hefeweizen please *wink*....live events, black & white photography, lets not forget about passionate kisses, which then reminds me.....What it is that I am missing.... my warm spoon.....*sigh*

Enjoying, living and learning......

And oh, yes....wondering when I should begin my "cat collection".....

A. Denying that I "might" just- ever so slightly.... be addicted to my BlackBerry.

B. Laughing....sometimes with you....and sometimes...at you.
*grin*

my smile
the laughter
or
my eyes (so I'm told)

Music: Counting Crows... my fav! Kings of Leon, Shinedown, Good Charlotte.....I guess way too much to list. Easier to say what I DON'T: and that would be ---Country-!! (well, unless Taylor Swift really does fall under country.....'cos I like her)

Favorite movie.... lately? The Hang Over and well, I did almost wet myself over Zack and Miri make a porno.......I also liked Waiting these three may say something about my sense of humor.

Favorite Foods...Hmmmm. Mexican, Italian, Indian, Seafood and Pizza to name a top five. I love food. Perhaps why I attempt to jog two miles "almost" daily.... but I'm so not perfect. *wink*

My great Family/Friends
Humor
Hand Sanitizer
My Blackberry
Batteries
My Imagination

rubbish really.......and leprechauns

Why OKcupid now calls "stalkers", "visitors".... WTF.....please, can't we just simply call em' as we see em'??

Hmmm..... once a "talking doctor" contacted me via okcupid... concerned about my leprechaun fascination...but I think it was his "in" to get me on his couch. dunno. what do you think?

shhhhh..... please, my mother could be peeping my profile.

If you've a great sense of humor ...

if I appear on your "stalkers" list (as THE most recent stalker) for several consecutive days.... that could mean I am uncertain about you and am looking for reinforcements or it could mean I may have had too much aluminum in my diet and sadly, dementia is setting in ...either case....
you may or may not, wish to be wary of me.... just a thought. Ha! ... I'm harmless I tell you!.....the "bunny sized pot" of boiling water means nothing...really. *wink*