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ascolti

47 / M / gay / Single

San Francisco, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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Your Notes

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I am a good guy, urban, and open-minded.

My Self-Summary

I am a transplant to SF from upstate New York and have lived here for 10 years. I feel really lucky to be in this amazing, beautiful, slightly crazy and unique city. I'm comfortable with single life but would like to meet a guy for a monogamous LTR. I'm also very interested to expand my circle of friends with people of any gender with similar interests.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm continuing to maintain a good balance of work and play. I also invest quite of bit of time volunteering in the GLBT community. I enjoy traveling back east to visit my family and visiting other cities in the world, exploring the architecture, landscape and culture.

I’m really good at

I think I get most compliments about how neat and clean my apartment is although I would hope that I have other more exciting talents :) I like photography, music and theater. I think I'm a pretty good friend to people.

The first things people usually notice about me

Probably my eyebrows and/or eyelashes

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I like most everything by David Sedaris, Augustin Burroughs, Christopher Bram and Steven McCauley. I guess that puts my mostly in the gay fiction genre. I'm all over the place with movies from Almodovar to classics like Lawrence of Arabia to the latest schlocky zombie flick. The music I'm currently listening to is Duffy, Jake Walden, Antony and the Johnsons, Jamie Lidell, Juvelen and Janelle Monae. I love mashups especially DJ Earworm. I'm a big fan of Italian (of course), Thai and Indian food. Or anything that a cute sweet guy cooks for me.

The six things I could never do without

My friends and family (I'll count that all as one), music, the Internet, ability to travel, coffee, calm.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Where I'm going, my privilege, possibilities.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out to dinner or happy hour with a friend or two. Or catching up on TV episodes so I can keep up with what everyone is talking about at work.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I sometimes contradict myself.

You should message me if

If this profile has made you a bit curious to know me a little more.