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41 • Asheville, NC • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 12:13am
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Aries, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Spending more time on the inner with much less emphasis on the outer.......
Starting to realize that this present moment is all that we ever have. The past and future are simply illusions brought about by our ego.
Focusing on a flexitarian lifestyle consuming mostly organic, raw foods, very little animal protein, mostly vegetables and fruits.
-being financially aware.
-having discipline in health, fitness, and nutrition (and on rare occasions, not so much).
-what i really want to be really good at is being present/in the moment.
-Movies like Shawshank Redemption, The Matrix, Vanilla Sky, The Departed, Breakfast Club, Saving Private Ryan, A Few Good Men, Fight Club, Inception, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, and the list goes on
-Food is mostly organic and lots of vegetables. I am not a complete vegetarian so to speak, but only eat about 10-20% of my diet with respect to animal protein. I do eat out and I do cheat. I prefer restaurants that are organic, but I have found only one in Charleston. Asheville, NC has tons! I miss the restaurants in Asheville!
-Music almost anything but Jazz and not crazy about Bluegrass or Country, but to be more specific Deadmau5, Skrillex, Tiesto, Linkin Park, Katy Perry (see below), Incubus, Coldplay, Calvin Harris, David Guetta, Smashing Pumpkins, U2 to name some of my tastes.
-alone time :-) (It helps me to recharge my energy....Introvert, remember?)
-how to be the path and not to just walk it
-where I fit in
-believing I am worth it
-thinking everyone is a big deal and all good souls excluding NONE!
-if this moment is real or a dream or if those moments surrounding right now are a dream
-why anyone would be less than 5 stars?
-why people's outward appearance is so important?
-how to positively impact everything
-how we have everything right now
-how anything is possible
-why I get so nervous around women, lmao
-how much more fun life would be if we all just loved
-Never mistakes, only lessons
-the false self or ego and being aware of the difference between that and your true soul
-where I will travel to next
-You think that you and I are a match and your aren't scared to send me a message.
-Your focus is something more than meeting a guy to take care of you financially. I am not looking to be used in that way. In fact I prefer someone that is "financially responsible" meaning you possess a mindset that makes it possible to look beyond the wants of today in order to provide for the needs of tomorrow.
-You buy into the thought that relationships are most healthy when balanced. If one of the individuals is putting in a significant amount more time/effort than the other, then that relationship probably isn't healthy. I need a balance.
-You understand that I want to be FRIENDS first. I am not into one night stands. Being friends to me also means that both parties are willing to initiate communication and one is not chasing the other. Understand that I am in here in the hopes that something blossoms for the long-term, but for that to happen I have to be friends first.
-You don't have kids. It's not that I don't like kids. It's quite the opposite. I just prefer a long-term relationship with someone that has no kids and may/may not want them in the future.
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