ashedale
41 Asheville, NC
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My self-summary
I would describe myself as a reflective, health conscious, optimistic, loyal, open-minded, sensitive, sweet and affectionate individual looking for a like-minded person. I love to laugh and make people laugh! I love to travel and vacation about 5 weeks out of the year. My big interest in the last few years has been whitewater rafting. I have my own boat and gear, so I go quite often and take others along frequently. Soon to buy a kayak..... :-) Big plus if you get on the water. Oh and I really, really believe in the laws of attraction and deliberate creation.
What I’m doing with my life
Spending more time on the inner with much less emphasis on the outer.......

Starting to realize that this present moment is all that we ever have. The past and future are simply illusions brought about by our ego.

Focusing on a flexitarian lifestyle consuming mostly organic, raw foods, very little animal protein, mostly vegetables and fruits.
I’m really good at
-making people laugh/smile (well at least I think so, ha)
-being financially responsible.
-having discipline in health, fitness, and nutrition (and on rare occasions, not so much).
-what i really want to be really good at is being present/in the moment.
-remembering faces. I have a strange memory for this. Not so much names though....
-being intuitive
-recognizing that being aware of my emotions help me understand if I am attracting good or bad vibes.
The first things people usually notice about me
my buzzed head, smile, physical body to name a few I remember.......
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
-Books by Eckhart Tolle, Jon Krakauer, Dan Millman, and Joel Fuhrman. Law of Attraction, Mindset and sort of any book in that realm of thought.
-Movies like Shawshank Redemption, The Matrix, Vanilla Sky, The Departed, Breakfast Club, Saving Private Ryan, A Few Good Men, Fight Club, Inception, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, and the list goes on
-Food is mostly organic and lots of vegetables. I am not a complete vegetarian so to speak, but eat very little animal protein at this time. I do enjoying eating out from time to time, but prefer healthier/organic eats. At least local if I can't get healthy or organic.
-Music almost anything except Jazz or bluegrass. To be more specific: Deadmau5, Skrillex, Tiesto, Above and Beyond, Katy Perry (notice I tried to hide this one in the middle and it didn't work did it?), Incubus, Coldplay, Calvin Harris, David Guetta, Smashing Pumpkins, U2 to name some of my tastes.
The six things I could never do without
-fitness of some type
-friends/family
-love
-faith
-humor
-outdoor activities of some sort
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-understanding that I am always where I am supposed to be. If that makes sense.....
-being present
-how to be the path and not to just walk it
-where I fit in
-believing I am worth it
-thinking everyone is a big deal and all good souls excluding NONE!
-if this moment is real or a dream or if those moments surrounding right now are a dream
-why anyone would be less than 5 stars?
-the power of positive thinking
-how we have everything right now
-how anything is possible
-why I get so nervous around women, lmao
-how much more fun life would be if we all just loved
-Never mistakes, only lessons
-the false self or ego and being aware of the difference between that and your true soul
-whitewater rafting
-where I will travel to next
-energetic frequencies
- how I am deliberately creating my life right now :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Not sure I ever have a typical friday...... out with friends, downtown, reading, being on the water/river, traveling, or maybe in Charleston, SC.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That i am not and will never be perfect.....
You should message me if
-You believe that you should........ :-)
-You think that you and I are a match and your aren't scared to send me a message. Haha! ;-)
-Your focus is something more than meeting a guy to take care of you financially. I am not looking to be used in that way. In fact I prefer someone that is "financially responsible" meaning you possess a mindset that makes it possible to look beyond the wants of today in order to provide for the needs of tomorrow.
-You buy into the thought that relationships are most healthy when balanced. If one of the individuals is putting in a significant amount more time/effort than the other, then that relationship probably isn't healthy. I need a balance.
-You understand that I want to be FRIENDS first. I am not into one night stands. Being friends to me also means that both parties are willing to initiate communication and one is not chasing the other. Understand that I am in here in the hopes that something blossoms for the long-term, but for that to happen I have to be friends first. Remember? Balance?
-You don't have kids. It's not that I don't like kids. It's quite the opposite. I just prefer a long-term relationship with someone that has no kids, who may/may not want them in the future.
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