i am a big man, everything about me is big. big personality. big dreams. big love. big heart. big expectations. big hope. big ego.
i do not do well with first meeting people i do not trust well. i have been beaten down in past relationships and and have not yet managed to get past the defense mechanisms i built to move past it.
It has left an overly snarky, high-minded sense of humor. I like to go out and have fun in the sun. whether it be the beach, the woods, or just causing some chaos in the neighborhood, just chilling on the front porch with a beer in the late afternoon. Conversation is important to me, friendly banter and assumed view points for the sake of an argument is always fun. I am bit of an oddball, but i digress.
I like to play hard and live harder, the adventure is always just around the next corner, and if you do not press you will never live it. and i view that as the greatest loss in this world people who will not take the adventure. wont bother with the quest. it is always its too hard or i am scared. life is meant to be lived! and i love living life. and am searching foe the one to share that with.
i am not good at first meeting people. it leaves people thinking i am shy or worse rude. i do not understand the concept of the icebreaker. so please if interested contact me.
our world is changing as of monday may 16 2011 we no longer have 4th amendment protection rights. this was ruled by our federal supreme court. if this does not concern you, stop reading and move on.