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27 M Brighton, United Kingdom

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
Hello! I'm Ashley, a young man who is new(ish) to lovely sunny Hove but Sussex born and bred.

I'm a fun, easy-going guy and can find and make new friends easily, but something a bit more special is always nice, and thought this might be worth a try. I'm currently enjoying an active and sociable life in Brighton, another way of saying that I like finding myself quite busy. "Active" doesn't equate to running marathons (yet), it just means I am a guy who prefers to make the most of his evenings and weekends, enjoying the company of good friends and the tingling feeling of new experiences.

I'm an optimist, and am learning to live with the occasional disappointments that brings. The half-full mentality is more than worth it :-) I don't tend to stay unhappy for too long, and don't find it hard to invent ways to keep myself happy, so odds are I'm obnoxiously happy right now, so don't be afraid to message me!
What I’m doing with my life
I love words, and I have pretentions of being a hobbyist writer, but likely don't write nearly as often enough to qualify as such. I do take part in National Novel Writing Month every year though, which means I have a few 50,000 word proto-novels laying around and plenty of scraps of other things. When I die, maybe they'll be published against my will, and I will become the new Kafka...

I work doing what I enjoy and am good at, which is designing software. It's fun!
The first things people usually notice about me
I have really awesome dimples. Not even gonna try to be modest on this one. You can see them in the pictures!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Regarding literature, I read classics most often, and not just because they're cheaper. I have a great passion for, and rude knowledge of, the Chinese classic novels. There are four of them, and they're all great. I begun reading one on a whim, and found myself transported to a magical world of wonderment... I'm gushing now.

My favourite author though is Tolstoy, and consider War and Peace the most perfect thing ever written, and was most disappointed when it ended. It's too short! Among the other Russians, I enjoy Mikhail Bulgakov.

Musically I was once such a rabid enough fan of Sigur Ros to name my OkCupid profile after them. I still adore the fellows, and have seen, and will see, them live, but find myself listening to electro a lot now, some of which is decidedly cheesy. M83, Errors, iamiwhoami, and whatever's on my Spotify playlist right now.

Update! Having a bit of a BEACH HOUSE binge at the moment. For about three months straight now. Teen Dream is like, a really good album and that.

I hold the - now thankfully popular - view that Karl Pilkington is the funniest man on TV and radio. I've heard almost everything he's ever broadcast. Yeah...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm one of those people that can happily spend hours chewing on the big questions. The really tasty ones. Saying that, my brain spends a lot of time on idle. If you have anything to say to kick it into gear, send me a message it!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once took a girl from work on a cinema date to see ... Brokeback Mountain -_- . Yes, it was my idea. A lump formed in my throat at the end and I had to summon all my manliness to stop myself from bawling...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Message me if you like the look of my face and/or my words, and have something to say.