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ashonfire

43 M Berkeley, CA

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Jul 28
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My self-summary
I'm a mix of French Afro Caribbean & Eastern European. Everyone in my family married someone from a different culture.

I am blessed with a fun and full life. I surround myself with diverse, genuine and creative people. I put a high value on quality over quantity. I'm passionate, well adjusted, have a big heart, independent & social. I love to cook and entertain friends and family.

I am excited about the possibilities, grateful for the healthy dose of inspiration, music, and magic in my life and passionate about building collaborative relationships, having an impact in my lifetime, and living up to the blessings I have received. I like to laugh and play with people. I am extremely driven and yet easy going. I make an effort to be truly present with people when I can. I don't like or need to talk about myself unless people ask and really want to know. In that case I am an open book with my own issues, challenges and hopefully some relevant incite to share. I value people who know who they are, come from a good place, do not take themselves too seriously, and know how to have fun. I love to get out in nature, dance and make music.

I'm not interested in drama. Life is too short.

I'm interested in building constructive relationships with the people in my life. I seek out people who are positive, passionate, grounded, and committed to whatever it is that matters in their world.

Sure a pretty face can get my attention, but it takes a beautiful mind and spirit to keep it. I'm looking for a woman who is down to earth, solid, inspired, intelligent, beautiful, fun, and free. At the same time she is a woman of substance who is committed and passionate about something, comfortable in her body, a good dancer, has a fulfilling life, knows who she is, what she wants, a great team player, exceptional communicator, and loving person with a sense of adventure. And ultimately she takes responsibility for her own happiness and surrounds herself with quality people. Is that too much to ask? I'm offering at least as much.
What I’m doing with my life
I spend much of my day doing business and community development work. Right now I'm working on doing a better job at taking everything I've learned about myself, people, business, life and the world so far and creating new opportunities to make a bigger impact, and collaborate with others around shared values and common goals.

Besides work I'm really focused on enjoying the short time we have on this planet, having as much fun as humanly possible and staying grounded by staying in touch with the day, my body, unvirtualizing my life and relationships. That means quality time with important people, at the beach often, random adventures, live music, lots of fresh air and sunsets.
I’m really good at
engaging people
managing
communicating
organizing
taking breaks
hosting
cooking
hanging out
spontaneous fun - roadtrip!
its been said.. "you really know how to live.."
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to do things better, communicate ideas, help other people, simplify, what I'm going to cook/eat next , what music do I want to listen to or learn how to play next. I create..therefore I am.
On a typical Friday night I am
It could be a quite night relaxing at home after a long week or maybe I'm out partying like a rock-star. Anything could happen depending on my mood.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
anything I've said speaks to you and you think we might enjoy at least making a new like-minded friend if not more. It's all upside!