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34 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:04am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Other, and very serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am a multifaceted bi intellectual geek. I love debating philosophy and reading academic papers; however, I do not let that get in the way of finding artistic expression and am fairly interested in photography right now. Ask if you would like to see some of my work. I have also worked with painting, produced porn and composed music. I love learning new things and challenging myself to explore the unfamiliar.

I am still trying to work out what I want in life, but for now I am aiming to casually date and see where things do or do not go. Ultimately I think I would like to be part of a bi (heteroflex) mmf triad. Although I have before, I am not looking to date guys in isolation right now. I am also always open to making new friends and people to go out with.

I am very strongly goal oriented and constantly re-evaluating and working toward what I want in life and let very few things interfere with that. I tend to prefer being surrounded by others with strong drives as well.

My spiritual leanings are important to me (Thelema). I do not expect anyone else to have any active faith, but tend to shy away from Christians. Although, I enjoy spiritual work, I am an agnostic atheist and accept science :-) .
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a software engineer for a mid sized Seattle based company. Ask if you would like to know more about that. I also run a web design business and produce porn as side projects.

I love how my career is advancing, but I am constantly debating going back to school for a PhD in Psychology focusing on Sexology. That has always been one of my primary passions. I am pretty much always reading either a sexology or spiritual based book. As mentioned earlier, I am also pretty heavily exploring photography right now and finding new ways to express ideas.

I also am a mentor a mentor and live with my mentee. It has been a rewarding experience helping him succeed in college and with work. It's a pretty amazing thing to watch someone grow and flourish.

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