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30 M Columbus, OH

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Atheism, and very serious about it
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Short version: I'm an atheistic, ecofeministic, social anarchistic, pro-science, cis-hetero white male.

Long version: I have a passion for environmental and social justice. I enjoy having wide-ranging conversations about everything (the sciences, the arts, the humanities, eccentric topics of the week, and philosophy to name a few examples), experiencing new things (because there is a lot to see and do and not exactly a lot of time to do it all in before life ends in that weird "Everything's fine and then it's all not existing anymore" sort of way), and preparing food to share with others (I kind of happen to be good at this - in fact, I have sort of made a lot of people bemoan the fact that I photograph a lot of what I make and throw it online so that they can see but aren't able to partake). I'm a game enthusiast [with certain games being very high on my enthusiasm quotient (i.e. D&D 3.5)] and am always exploring new games to enjoy.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now, I'm in the process of getting myself back on my feet and employed with the intent of resuming my studies and (eventually) getting my PhD in Environmental Sociology and living out my future ambition of having world changing shenanigans. I didn't think I'd be in Columbus while I was working on that but I'm definitely interested in making the most of what this little city has to offer (little being sarcastic as I've discovered it's not at all that small a town).
I’m really good at
Communicating ideas, questioning the world and all of its assorted parts (emphasis on the whys and hows), seeing complex problems and devising complex solutions to address them (because simple solutions just don't cut the muster), and making things in a kitchen. Feel free to ask me about any or all of these (especially that last one - you'll be very glad you did).
The first things people usually notice about me
Is that I have a beard and long hair. And, since I am happy to have those things, I would like to take this opportunity to clarify that any remarks (because I've gotten them before) about "me getting more responses if I shaved my beard or cut my hair" defeats the purpose of wanting someone who enjoys me having a beard and long hair.

As an aside, if you read this and think "Nice!" with the beard and long hair, I want to say "Thanks" and "Drop me a message sometime" in return.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - The entire Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy series, Manufacturing Consent by Edward S. Herman and Noam Chomsky, Arthur C. Clarke's 2001: A Space Odyssey (and its sequels), Contact by Carl Sagan, Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit, 1984, Animal Farm, Stranger In A Strange Land, Dune (along with its sequel novels)

Movies - 2001: A Space Odyssey, Shaun of the Dead, the Monty Python films, the original Star Wars trilogy, the Marvel Cinematic Universe films, "Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy", Star Trek (Wrath of Khan through the reboot - I thought Into Darkness was a good film but not a good Star Trek film), the Marvel Cinematic Universe

Music - The Diablo Swing Orchestra, Breaking Benjamin, Interpol, Disturbed, Pink Floyd, The Bravery, Killswitch Engage, Bela Fleck and the Flecktones

Food - This one's tricky, as I'm a vegetarian and a passionate maker of food. So, food lacking meat, eggs, and as low in any dairy products as possible could fit here, but I've not yet explored enough recipes to say definitively. Although, I should add, I have a fondness for baking cheesecakes. And, oh yes, I've made so many different kinds (and have so many more to experience).
The six things I could never do without
1) Honesty
2) Curiosity
3) Thoughtful conversation
4) A kitchen
5) Principles
6) Books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Things worth having a conversation about (along with a nice cup of tea).
On a typical Friday night I am
Trying to figure out what "typical" is going to be, but it presently consists of hanging out at home with music and media or finding myself exploring the city I now reside in. Obviously, this is expected to change.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Is that I am actually a lot more exciting than my profile will tell you. I'm pretty sure that's because I am not able to effectively communicate what my friends see in me. It is quite baffling to me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You have a good reason to do so.

You want to find someone who loves to bake things that you can eat without guilt (I love to share what I make).

You're interested in someone who is not interested in monogamy. Because I'm not looking to do that again, as I truly like the idea of being with someone but also want the freedom for myself (as well as for any partner I'll have) to find those things in other relationships that either of us might not get from the other person.

If you're even just looking for something that is open and very short-term, feel encouraged to send a message my way.

You're looking for a cuddle partner. I will freely admit that my life has a sincere absence of those that I'd be happy to fill.