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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 23
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I have lived in NYC for about 12 years and also in Europe. I love traveling and taking advantage of all the great things this city has to offer...or trying to, at least. Sense of humor, intelligence and decency are very important to me. I am hoping to find someone smart, attractive and masculine who (for the most part) has his act together. On the other hand, I recognize everyone is a work in progress too.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work for a real estate investment management firm as a lawyer and doing community outreach. I love traveling, reading, movies and going out. Let's see... I've been to Ashrams, spent a month learning French last summer in Villefranche, take the odd class here and there, and prioritize being funny and loyal in friendships.
I’m really good at
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Self-awareness, signing up for things, laughing at your jokes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Art of Fielding, Freedom (Franzen), The Reluctant Fundamentalist, Anna Karenina, East of Eden, Call Me By Your Name, Out of Egypt, The Man in the White Sharkskin Suit. I also read that Tiger Mom book recently, but I am not 100% sure why.

Movies: Sunshine, Gattaca, Blue is the Warmest Color, Keep the Lights On, Forks Over Knives, Batman 3, Warrior, Hannah, Waltz With Bashir, I Am Love, Blade Runner, Old Boy, Donnie Darko, Manhattan, Breaking Upwards, 2046, Let the Right One In, 3 Colors Trilogy, Alien(s),

TV Shows: The Wire, Parks & Recreation, Breaking Bad, Homeland, Friday Night Lights, Enlightened, 30 Rock, Arrested Development, Strangers with Candy, Charlie Rose, Colbert Report...

Music: U2, Sigur Ros, Mumford & Sons, Radiohead, The Avett Brothers, Adele, Jay-Z, Prince, the Killers

Food: all foods, so long as they are not bland or factory farmed
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. books
2. friends
3. my passport
4. sushi/good food
5. good wine
6. basically any Apple product
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether I should move from Manhattan to Brooklyn
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out ...or in.
You should message me if
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you think we might click and want to learn more....