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40 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 23
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I have lived in NYC for about 12 years and also in Europe. I love traveling and taking advantage of all the great things this city has to offer...or trying to, at least. Sense of humor, intelligence and decency are very important to me. I am hoping to find someone smart, attractive and masculine who (for the most part) has his act together. On the other hand, I recognize everyone is a work in progress too.
What I’m doing with my life
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I would work for an investment management firm. But my life does not revolve around work. I love traveling, reading, movies and trying to work hard while still enjoying a lot of the great things that NYC has to offer. Recently finished an intense week eating vegetarian food at a hiking and yoga retreat on the west coast. It was a new experience for me but very eye opening.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Art of Fielding, Freedom (Franzen), The Reluctant Fundamentalist, Anna Karenina, East of Eden, Call Me By Your Name, Out of Egypt, The Man in the White Sharkskin Suit. I also read that Tiger Mom book recently, but I am not 100% sure why.

Movies: Sunshine, Gattaca, Blue is the Warmest Color, Keep the Lights On, Forks Over Knives, Batman 3, Warrior, Hannah, Waltz With Bashir, I Am Love, Blade Runner, Old Boy, Donnie Darko, Manhattan, Breaking Upwards, 2046, Let the Right One In, 3 Colors Trilogy, Alien(s),

TV Shows: The Wire, Parks & Recreation, Breaking Bad, Homeland, Friday Night Lights, Enlightened, 30 Rock, Arrested Development, Strangers with Candy, Charlie Rose, Colbert Report...

Music: U2, Sigur Ros, Mumford & Sons, Radiohead, The Avett Brothers, Adele, Jay-Z, Prince, the Killers

Food: all foods, so long as they are not bland or factory farmed
The six things I could never do without
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1. books
2. friends
3. my passport
4. sushi/good food
5. good wine
6. basically any Apple product (I wish this were not on the list)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to not think so much
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends at dinner or drinks...or at home reading or watching a movie.
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You should message me if
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you think we might click and want to learn more....