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asp101

40 New York, NY Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
May 1
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I have lived in NYC for about 12 years and also in Europe. I love traveling and taking advantage of all the great things this city has to offer...or trying to, at least. Sense of humor, intelligence and decency are very important to me. I am hoping to find someone smart, attractive and masculine who (for the most part) has his act together. On the other hand, I recognize everyone is a work in progress too.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work for a real estate investment management firm as a lawyer and doing community outreach. I love traveling, reading, movies and going out. Let's see... I've been to Ashrams, spent a month learning French last summer in Villefranche, take the odd class here and there, and prioritize being funny and loyal in friendships.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Self-awareness, signing up for things, laughing at your jokes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Art of Fielding, Freedom (Franzen), The Reluctant Fundamentalist, Anna Karenina, East of Eden, Call Me By Your Name, Out of Egypt, The Man in the White Sharkskin Suit. I also read that Tiger Mom book recently, but I am not 100% sure why.

Movies: Sunshine, Gattaca, Blue is the Warmest Color, Keep the Lights On, Forks Over Knives, Batman 3, Warrior, Hannah, Waltz With Bashir, I Am Love, Blade Runner, Old Boy, Donnie Darko, Manhattan, Breaking Upwards, 2046, Let the Right One In, 3 Colors Trilogy, Alien(s),

TV Shows: The Wire, Parks & Recreation, Breaking Bad, Homeland, Friday Night Lights, Enlightened, 30 Rock, Arrested Development, Strangers with Candy, Charlie Rose, Colbert Report...

Music: U2, Sigur Ros, Mumford & Sons, Radiohead, The Avett Brothers, Adele, Jay-Z, Prince, the Killers

Food: all foods, so long as they are not bland or factory farmed
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. books
2. friends
3. my passport
4. sushi/good food
5. good wine
6. basically any Apple product
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether I should move from Manhattan to Brooklyn
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out ...or in.
You should message me if
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you think we might click and want to learn more....