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27 San Diego, CA Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:54am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Other and laughing about it
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Hi! I'm John. I consider myself to be a thoughtful and passionate person. I love my friends. I'm equally attracted to both genders. I collect records and tapes. I get really excited at concerts, and I smoke a lot. I'm pretty absent minded. I consider duality to be an illusion; I consider individuals who attempt to convince anyone otherwise to be full of shit and potentially dangerous.

I am polyamorus; in other words, open to both sexual and emotional relationships with multiple people simultaneously. If you're okay with that, or if sounds at all interesting or appealing to you (or if you have questions), feel free to send me a message!
What I’m doing with my life
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Music is my life. I play bass guitar in two bands and I spin techno out around town when I can. I am currently living in a house in South Park with 3 close friends. I deliver pizza during the day, nights I spend in all manner of ways.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making noises, shaking people, lateral thinking, being excited
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've heard people say they notice my eyes first. My sideburns are reasonably distinctive, I've had them since middle school. I like to hug new people. I am occasionally too loud at parties. I don't put a lot of thought or energy into my wardrobe. Sometimes, I'm a close-talker (I'm a bit deaf from too many shows). I'm not great with sarcasm and have an odd sense of humor, which can occasionally lead to uncomfortable social moments.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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After quite a bit of deliberation, I have decided to remove my enormous lists of favorite media. I have too many favorites! I prefer techno, punk, and experimental/psychedelic music. I watch neo-noir for days. Favorite authors are Kafka, William Burroughs, and Philip K Dick. Camus is great too.

When it comes to food, I'm particularly fond of anything bitter or spicy. Thai food is my favorite, and Indian is a close second. I eat way too much pizza. I don't really cook, though I'm learning. I recently started a proper garden in my backyard and have been really enjoying going back there at least once a day and grazing on fresh veggies. My only real dietary limitation is that too much sodium on the regular gives me kidney stones. I've found this out the hard way. Also, please never give me coffee - I have trouble saying no, and it really runs a number on me. I don't like candy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, Friends, Love, Art, Creativity, Foolishness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What Assistant Director Skinner Would Do
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't have a routine, just hours that I'm available and hours that I'm not due to work/band stuff/etc. That being said, if it's a Friday night I am probably hanging out with my friends. Or staying in and reading a book. Or playing a show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not very good at wrestling.
You should message me if
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You want to believe