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asphyxiaphilia

25 M San Diego, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:49pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Often
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus
Education
Working on university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a passionate person. An online Jung Typology Test™ told me I am an ENFP. I love the night sky, chess, midi sequencing, william s. burroughs, live music, ghost stories, my DR-770, androgyny, books, consensual violence (i.e. mosh pits, rough sex etc.), pillows, dogs, techno, people who are actively exerting a positive influence on their environment, chaos (moderated or otherwise), making beats, making out, lucid dreaming and playing video games. I live for the act of creation, overcoming reality, taking calculated risks, connecting with people, traveling, performing, etc.

I don't really hate anything. Very few things piss me off, and I don't think I've ever truly hated anyone - if I do have a chip on my shoulder it's over the whole Us vs Them mentality that's a staple of so many communities and individual perspectives both inside and outside the proverbial box, it's really just not for me. Duality is an illusion, we're all one, and I'm typically suspicious of individuals who attempt to convince anyone otherwise.
What I’m doing with my life
All energy flows according to the whims of The Great Magnet.

Music is my life. I play in two bands and I spin techno out around town when I can. I spend a lot of time with the people closest to me, though I'd really like to spend more time getting to know new people - I find it helps me continue expanding my horizons and keeps me thinking about the multitude of ways there are to handle the many existential problems presented by this crazy world. It's good to have options!

I am polyamorus; in other words, open to both sexual and emotional relationships with multiple people simultaniously. If you're okay with that, or if sounds at all interesting or appealing to you, or if you have questions - go ahead and send me a message!
I’m really good at
Making Noises, Playing Bass, Lateral Thinking, Not Sleeping, Arguing, Writing, Teaching, Listening, Public Speaking, and Singing.
The first things people usually notice about me
Couldn't say specifically what attribute. Maybe my hair? Probably my sideburns. Less so now that I'm actually keeping my burns in check. Help me out editors!

(Stereotypical as it may be, believe it or not, I really did
notice your eyes first. You've really got expressive fucking eyes,
hon. -Kennelbreach)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors:
Franz Kafka, William Burroughs, Robert Anton Wilson, Tom Robbins, Douglas Hofstadter, John Varley, Jules Verne, Alan Moore, Carl Sagan, H.G. Wells, Carl Jung, M.R. James, Kenneth Grant, H.P. Lovecraft, Philip K. Dick, Albert Camus, Jack Kerouac, Issac Asimov, James Joyce, Mark Fisher, Clive Barker, Terrence McKenna, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, and Aleister Crowley are my favorite authors, in about that order.

Movies:
Apocalypse Now! (my all-time favorite film), Alien, Naked Lunch, The Empire Strikes Back, High Fidelity, A Clockwork Orange, Rope, Darkstar, Casablanca, Tron, Se7en, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Do The Right Thing, Sid & Nancy, Natural Born Killers, Nixon, The Elephant Man, Son Of Rambo, Repo Man, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, The Big Chill, Time Bandits, Blue Velvet, Alien 3, Coffee and Cigarettes, Eyes Wide Shut, Pi, Ed Wood, Batman Returns, The Man Who Fell To Earth, The Aviator, Pulp Fiction, Robocop, Dr. Strangelove, The Ghost and Mrs. Muir, Star Trek 3: the Search for Spock, Plan 9 From Outer Space, Eraserhead, Little Nemo's Adventures In Slumberland, Sunshine, Happiness, The Fly, The 5000 Fingers of Dr. T, The Shining, Wall-E, Pan's Labyrinth, Predator

Shows:
MST3K, Superjail, Girls, Star Trek, Twilight Zone, 30 Rock, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead. Anything by Mike Judge. I will watch most shows, I'm not picky.

Music:
David Bowie, Autechre, The Fall, Coil, Droid Behavior, Kraftwerk, Skinny Puppy, Chris Liebing, The Hafler Trio, Underground Resistance, Miles Davis, Henry Cow, Eric Satie, Retox, Brian Eno, John Zorn, Richard Devine, Devo, Jim O'Rourke, Black Flag, Nurse With Wound, The Pink Floyd, Juan Atkins, Fugazi, Ligeti, The Jesus Lizard, RZA, Swans, Sonic Youth, Mantronix, Adrian Sherwood, Chris Watson, µ-Ziq, DJ Rashad, Diamanda Galás, Public Enemy, Cabaret Voltaire, Bob Marley, Godflesh, Tortoise, ISIS, EPMD, Xenakis, 8bitpeoples, Nine Inch Nails, Wire, Kid 606, Nomeansno, Negativland, Throbbing Gristle, Fennesz, Thinking Plague, The Slits, Ol' Dirty Bastard, 808 State, Company Flow, Vladislav Delay, Ricardo Villolobos, Napalm Death, Kool Keith, Baseck, Merzbow, K.M.F.D.M., Suffocation, Tool, Venetian Snares, Lee "Scratch" Perry, Sunn O))), Carcass, Bill Laswell, Kevin Martin, Kode9, The Locust, Acid Mothers Temple, Steve Albini, Pain Teens, Cherubs, Capitan Beefheart, Neurosis, John Peel

When it comes to food, I'm particularly fond of anything bitter or spicy. Thai food is my favorite. I unfortunately tend to eat out or eat things that I don't have to prepare because I don't really feel strongly enough about food to put more than 3 or 4 minutes into creating a meal. My diet consists mostly of carbs and meat, and my body does not seem to mind, though I recently started a proper garden in my backyard and have been really enjoying going back there at least once a day and grazing on fresh veggies. I love tofu, but try to avoid it: Too much soy gives me kidney stones. I've found this out the hard way.
The six things I could never do without
Techno, sex, and cigarettes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Music. Alternative sexuality. My Friends. KennelBreach. Outer Space. The Weather. My Family. My Physical and Mental Well Being. What Assistant Director Skinner Would Do. Pizza. Mankind's Eventual Colonization Of The Cosmos. What I'm Going To Be When I Grow Up. Who's Really In Charge. Going To Bed. Where I'm going to get my next burrito. The Myth Of Sisyphus.
On a typical Friday night I am
Band Practice. Out At a Show. Playing a Show. Out at a Party. Throwing a Party. At work. Reading in bed and going to sleep before 9. Raging my face off. Anything goes, really.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I spend more time with my music gear than I do with my family.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You want to believe.