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asqueeze

31 / M / gay / Seeing someone

San Francisco, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
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Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
—
Kids
—
Pets
—
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My Self-Summary

In short: LA face with an Oakland booty.

I enjoy wearing ear plugs to bed.

I've been known to discuss pond bacteria on dates and to bring up orgies in the office.

I love walking down the street carrying a bouquet of flowers.

Part hedonist, part thinker.

I'm curious but content. I love the friends I have, and I love making new ones. I can whip up a mean challah, and I enjoy quality crappy movies. Making out? Check. Reading in bed? Check. Dinner parties? Dancing till the wee hours? Making the world a better place? Check, check, and check. I'm ambitious, but I know that most of life's joy can be found in the day-to-day. So let's grab a drink, or brunch, or an aimless wander around town, or . . .

Es una lastima que no hablo Espanol muy bien ahora. QUiero aprender de nuevo.

What I’m doing with my life

Feeling settled in in SF, though still experiencing moments of culture shock as I reacclimate after 11 years in the Northeast. I spend my days trying to save the world (or at least pockets of the East Bay) by sitting in community meetings and sorting through arcane statutes and regulations. Housing, jobs, and healthy neighborhoods for all! Woohoo!

I’m really good at

Baking bread. Rambling late-night conversations. Hugging. Pondering.

The first things people usually notice about me

You tell me. Seriously. It's always fascinating to get a glimpse of how I look through the eyes of others.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Invisible Man is clearly the "Great American Novel," but more importantly, it's a great read that speaks personally to me every time I read it. Updated reading list -- in the middle of Petropolis, recently done with The Road, Apex Hides the Hurt, and Dreams From My Father. I love the movie The Pillow Book though I've vowed only to see it once. My true food soulmate will always be broccoli, though I do enjoy good crusty bread, creative salads, anything with corn in it, and dark chocolate. Belgian Beer also rocks my world. I'm a classical musician, so I love all those old coots (Beethoven symphonies, Schubert chamber music, Bach's solo cello suites, most things Shostakovich and Mahler, and assorted other good stuff). I also love trashy dance music, the beatles, old Motown artists, and whatever random MP3s I happen to have laying around.

The six things I could never do without

1. connecting with others 2. Cello 3. creating physical things 4. intimate conversation 5. writing 6. balance (between self and social, work and play, activity and rest, etc)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Landscapes -- physical, social, internal, fictional.

On a typical Friday night I am

At a lounge or dive bar or eating out with friends, or cooking, or from time to time at home on the couch with a movie and someone nice and warm.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I get a different label each time I take the OKCupid Test, but I feel like I answer the questions consistently. Seriously, so far I've gotten the Gentleman, Bachelor, False Messiah, Loverboy, and Vapor Trail. Let's add Playboy to the list. Why not. I'm really not that mercurial. I swear!

You should message me if

You like or dislike my prose or pics, you want wander around SF, you care to correct my grammar or word usage, you've got a good chill pub with a bunch of things on tap that you'd like to recommend, you can teach me how to make a good new veggie dish, or basically any other reason. I'm relatively friendly most of the time.

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