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34 F Brooklyn, NY

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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Korean (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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don't let my age be a deterrent, because apparently it is. i'm young where it counts and mature where it counts.

always searching for more and new ways to being self-fulfilled, enlightened, connecting to the world and self, and making a difference in both. i'm content, but i will never settle. my life is always filled with adventures and interesting experiences. and i hope they keep on coming. it would be nice to share.

born and raised in seoul, and have been a new yorker since 9. recently spent six months on a cruiseship, sailing around the mediterranean.

i'm a paradox in many ways but here are a few traits that have always been consistent: individualistic, independent, irreverent, optimistic, inquisitive, passionate, unconventional, modern, active, spontaneous. i love my life and laughing while living it, and making others laugh with me along the way. i'm as low-maintenance as they come. i have very strong beliefs and high standards but i'm not a pusher, and i'll always respect your beliefs even if i may not agree.

pretty accident-prone, but also highly resilient. my bros would say that i am a riot, a bad influence (in the best way) and a crackhead - that pretty much sums me up. also, if you care about such things - entp and a sapiophile.

old bits you won't bother reading anyway:

iso scintillating conversationalists, titillating adventurers and fellow assassins to paint the town with. i'm always on the lookout for a muse and amusement.

life has taught me time and time again that everything continually changes, so i care only about the guts, the substance, and the present. i live in the moment and never look back. adventures always have a way of finding me and i'm always up for it. i genuinely love life and following wherever it takes me.

i am:
mischief, merriment, and mayhem
electric, eccentric, eclectic, and anarchistic
a conundrum, a paradox, almost a palindrome, not a paradigm
an anomaly, an asterisk, semi-ambidextrous and ambiguous
an aesthete and an athlete
a pusher and a provocateur
insatiably curious, curiously insatiable
a sinner and a saint
easily bored, easily amused
classy, with a dash of sass and a smidgen of crass
fearless, shameless, restless
bulletproof and foolproof
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
by night, an assassin leaping over rooftops in brooklyn.

by day, getting paid to come up with ideas and make things.

everyday, taking in as much as i can.

every night, not getting enough sleep.

plunging into the moment
gaining momentum
taking chances
making changes
starting a revolution
constant evolution

carpe mothafuckin' diem.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making the wrong decisions/never regretting my decisions
calling a bluff, speaking my mind, asking questions, provoking thought
defiling, defining, defying
construction, deconstruction and reconstruction, not following instructions
daydreaming, getting lost
being an eternal kid at heart
being a jack of all trades, master of none
staying up all night/watching sunrises
questioning the status quo, going against the grain
standing up for the underdog and what i believe in
being absolutely true to myself/living in the moment
The first things people usually notice about me
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my intense aura, which is apparently purple.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: too much of everything, including comics (clowes, pekar, miller), nonfiction (gladwell, pollan), children's literature and fairy/folktales (carroll, lewis, saint-exupery, dahl, h.c. andersen, grimm), cookbooks, travel guides and language instruction books. rereading my favorites in their korean or french translations. kerouac, orwell, pynchon, bradbury, camus, salinger, bukowski, ionesco, palahniuk, ellis, borges, welsh, mamet, albee, cummings, capote, sedaris.

additions as of 11/27/13: i started reading and listening to a lot of osho during my oceanic voyage. it served me well. i'm also currently reading top brain, bottom brain. i recommend it. plus, the walking dead comics.

movies/shows: fave movies are blade runner and city of lost children. directors - hitchcock, kubrick, aronofsky, pt&w anderson, jonze, gondry, jeunet, fellini, tarantino, lynch, allen, godard, coen bros. tv - the wire, thrones, breaking bad, six feet under, 30 rock, mad men, louie, walking dead, dexter, arrested development. and i freakin' love cartoons.

additions as of 11/27/13: orange is the new black has quickly become a new favorite for me. also, the qatsi trilogy.

music: sly, bowie, stevie, the clash, the stones, hendrix, the xx, bboys, jackson 5, sonic youth, spoon, blonde redhead, portishead, pj harvey, smashing pumpkins (siamese dreams and pre only), beatles, sondre lerche, explosions in the sky, stereolab, massive attack, ray charles, zero 7, muddy waters, cibo matto, cool kids, cold war kids, x, rjd2, pixies, ac/dc, air, nin, aesop rock, arctic monkeys, bon iver, qotsa, camp lo, gorillaz, dead man's bones, queen, leonard cohen, morcheeba, peaches, prince, grizzly bear, the knife, fever ray, passion pit, ratm, stp, tribe, h and o, marley, cornelius, motley crue, john lee hooker, joao gilberto, the list goes on and on.

art: escher, banksy, ryden, dali, gorey, frank lloyd wright, barney. big into street art and photography.

food: yes, mothafuckin' please.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. playing by my own rules/free will/lack of limitations
2. connection: emotional/physical/mental
3. mobility/constant change
4. justice
5. expression
6. possibility/choice

7. truth
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the human brain and why we are the way we are.

social injustice and what i'm going to do about it.

whether i'll actually get to use my survival skills in the post-apocalypse.

how free will and endless possibilities can sometimes be a double edged sword, and what i would do with my life if my choices were limited.

how much those kids make in a day by breakdancing in subway cars, and whether i should quit my day job.

why there are toenail clippings in my subway car.

why people worry so much about being politically correct. how i think humor is the number one tool for addressing these sensitive issues and educating people. i believe in raising awareness, not in skirting around the issue or repressing what you may not be saying but thinking all the same.

why there are so many rules and why most of them are stupid. why anyone has the right to label something as being acceptable or unacceptable. why we judge.


how our personality traits and percentiles on okc are purely based on the questions we've CHOSEN to answer, meaning we can end up being pretty different from how we're marketed on this site - and may not be so compatible or incompatible.

why i bother with such a lengthy profile, when all you do is look at my pictures and stats.

oneirology/lucid dreaming/astral projections/making a dream recording machine/brain mapping
time travel/timing
penchants/intrinsic vs. learned talent/talent vs. skill
etymology/zoology/botany/marine biology/probability
genetics/nature/nurture/frankenstein/pascual duarte
connections/missed connections
preferred modes of transportation: ratrods/motorcycles/skateboards/snow/surfboards/quads/
hang glides/parachutes/hot air balloons
unconventional modes of dwelling: bomb shelters/igloos/churches/submarines

when i'm not busy thinking about these things, i'm busy living. i don't sleep much.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
rolling the dice/all in
blowing on an eyelash/knocking on wood
leading the pack/fighting the norm
painting the town black/setting the night on fire
up to no good/in medias res
atypical/black magical
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i HATE shopping. but even bigger than that, i don't own a smartphone.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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*i am very open to all personality types, personal beliefs, interests, dislikes, passions, quirks, and vices, but i have to be honest and say that i've only ever dated fellow artists (specifically, musicians and filmmakers) my entire life (maybe that's the problem?) and i'm pretty strongly biased towards them. i'm also wildly attracted to intelligence and boys who can make me cackle. actually, scratch that. you MUST be intelligent and hilarious (to me, at least). i'm a pint sized heightist (i like 'em really tall) and an old ageist (i like 'em my age and below). i guess i'm not very open after all, but then i do tend to be pretty delusional.