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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 1
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Mostly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a typical northwest person in that I love to be outside hiking, camping, swimming, biking, etc., complain about the rain all year and then walk around the first sunny day of spring as though I just won the lottery, wear jeans to work, and slather baristas with a good portion of my take-home pay.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I don't know, what are you doing with yours?

I'm trying to be a good parent and have meaningful work and enjoy the rest of what little time there is.

I admit it, I'm a poetry editor. If you're at all interested in what's editable about poetry, I can tell you.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Folding maps. Cooking perfect rice.
UPDATE: I'm not really that good at cooking rice. It was just a fluke, a couple of times.
UPDATE UPDATE: Turns out the map was a fluke, also.
No, no, really, I'm very good at folding maps.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I do a great Robert deNiro impression.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I will read pretty much anything I can get my hands on and I like movies a lot, too.

But music is the shit for me, in almost any way, shape or form.

And Vegas. And [adult swim].
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good reading light.
My iPod. Oh god, nobody has an iPod. Make that Spotify.
Other people.
A sense of humor.
Side B of Abbey Road
A pen.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When culottes are going to come back in style. Oh shit, they are? OK, back to thinking about the mysterious origins of the universe, the impossible physics of weather, and how to harness the power of entropy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home watching vintage Spidey with my daughter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My thumbs are double jointed. And, I have been drinking 2 Emergen Cs a day, even though the emergency is over.
You should message me if
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You like to read, or go and do stuff that's interesting, or both. You think most people are worth talking to. And you think I might be one of them.