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atbfan101

23 / M / Gay / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
May 18
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
Check this out====http://lmftnick.tumblr.com==== :Some things about me are that I am considered(by my mom) a gentle giant that is apparently intimidating to strangers if im walking alone at night since im 6 1 and "manly bodied". I'll be spending my late 20's and early 30's beginning adulthood fully and working on cleaning up until I can finally have a career and a life of my own independently(going through graduate school and beyond). Though I currently do not worship any deity or higher power, I do know that I'm interested in studying my spiritual side, but not worshiping anything. As a gay man, I have had the experience of living life through the heterosexual point of view, but also being taught about my own lifestyle. Giving back to those who have worked hard so that I may be open with who I am now is an honor. If I can have a partner and a dog, I will be happy. Kids are not of interest to me now, but one day if I am financially stable and at a place in my life where it is a good idea; then I will probably adopt one kid. Ideally, I want to live on the outskirts of a city where I can drive into it for fun and excitement. All things take time, and i am willing to work at getting what I want. I am not the person I used to be and feel that schooling and experience are maturing me. I love a bunch of nerdy things, and i also like a great deal of main stream things. I prefer a bath over a shower, a garden over a beach, and a lighthouse over a pier. You are what you make yourself into, and i am working on becoming the one I want to be. Being yourself is simply a bunch of puzzle pieces you choose over your life and putting them together. Destiny is what you make it, not what someone or some higher power expects you to be. I love the color green and turquoise. Cheese is evil because it is so tasty. All in all, I want to be happy and make a life for myself I can be proud of. Things take time, and I am willing to be patient, the question I ponder is if the people around me can be patient as well.
----Updates below from August 2012----
I'm predominantly looking to date other white males. Sometimes great looking guys from other backgrounds too:) I know my profile seems pretty serious, but in reality, I am a joke cracking sarcastic person. Its only when I am in class, doing my job on campus as a student worker or working toward my psychotherapy license that I keep it professional. People tell me that I don't act like a psychologist, and they are right! I am an undergraduate psych senior, not a phd senior. I go to Antioch university Los Angeles and enjoy it minus the super tiny and non traditional setting. I havent had much luck on here as I am looking to people either in college, past it, or between 21-40. I still like this site though, its a great alternative to many others out there that are mostly for sex.
What I’m doing with my life
Going to my university for Psychologycurrent senior, future MA student Clinical psychology

Super Rookie( i need to go to more practiced and get shaped up!) on the La Rebellion Rugby Team. Forward position(defensive)

So much to do with my life and things are tough !!!!
I’m really good at
Carrying on a conversation and being empathetic. I really enjoy talking.

Being outrageous and silly--- i can make light of things

Im known to be outspoken and people take it one of 3 ways.... Nick is a judgmental sassy asshole..... Nick is sarcastic and funny.... nick is ... did he just say that?
The first things people usually notice about me
I dunno, what do you notice haha? I am pretty tall.

Always my height and stature, Tall beefy guy with a soft face
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Sex and Gender, Cognitive Psychology of Mass Communication,Abnormal Psychology, The Social Dimension of Sex, Lord of the Rings, The God Box, The God Delusion. The Developing Person, Diginity, The Gift of therapy, CBT, The Odyssey, XENA! Salvadge the bones, lots more!

Movies: American Beauty, Sister Act, Clueless, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, BamBam and Celeste, A Dirty Shame, Lord of the Rings, Chronicles of Narnia, The Golden Compass, Ultraviolet, Hocus Pocus, Rango, Rio, Coraline, Latter Days. tons more!

Shows: Xena!, Hercules, Parks and Recreation, Hoarders, Intervention, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Family Guy, Archer, Falling Skies, Haven, Alphas, Stargate SG-1, Stargate Atlantis, Stargate Universe, Battlestar Galactica, Caprica, Simpsons, South Park, Game of Thrones, Camelot, Merlin. 666 park avenue, once upon a time

Music: ATB, Tiesto, Paul van Dyk, Cascada, Kaskade, Explosions in the Sky, Lady Gaga, Nickel Creek, Jessica Andrews, Dido, Kenny Chesney, Deana Carter, Yellowcard, Damien Rice, Broken Social Scene, Just in Case, Michelle Branch, Avril Lavigne, Alanis Morissette, Moby, Dash Berlin, Madonna, East Mountain South. tons more!

Food: Tofu, peanuts, pumpkin pie, jam, vanilla, coffee, soy milk, coconut milk, almond milk, tomatoes, bananas, potatoes, all vegetarian. Greek, Italian, Asian, Indian, Persian, Armenian. lots morrrree!
The six things I could never do without
education
Trader Joes
"products"
Family
Laptop
Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my future and where it is heading, oh and men... constantly circling through my mind hehe

I stress too much on getting things in order since time keeps clicking away and im not getting any younger.
On a typical Friday night I am
it's different depending on which Friday of the year, Im not much into going out to bars alot so i like to stay home and watch movies. I love comedy clubs and drag comedy though. I like the idea of going out to have fun outside of just taking shots. Im open to it occasionally though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like watching Spongebob still, and don't mind the occasional old school Power Rangers. Morphin Time!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
if you want to talk about things and get to know each other or plan a hangout