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athricefan

30 / M / Straight / Single

Hampton, Virginia

His Details

Last Online
Today – 7:46pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Oh hello, my name is Chris.

I am a laid back, chill guy.

I love all kinds of music, love going to shows, and enjoy playing my guitar. I don't have a ton of hobbies per say, though I enjoy a good game of poker, spending time in the mountains or at the beach, or spending time at the gym. I basically just like to have a good time with good people.

When I have time to myself I either unwind by watching something good on TV (or netflix) or reading a good book. It is not uncommon for me to kill an hour of time randomly by taking my bike out for a ride. Humor is pretty important to me. If you can hold your own in a sarcastic conversation, we are gonna get along just fine.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a professional counselor (i.e. sit on my couch, tell me your drama, and let's figure this out). I love that I get to help people for a job. It's fulfilling and humbling at all once. But it is certainly not all that I am.

I'm a musician, so I'm also working on writing some songs and what not.

I'm a funny guy. Or at least I think I am... Sometimes... Maybe, right? Wanna hear a joke?

I play with my nieces and nephews every chance I get because they are awesome. I have fun with them.
I’m really good at
I know my way around a kitchen and a grill. You wanna good steak, you can go out to Outback or wherever you fancy. You want a better one? You can let me grill ya one up.

I also know my way around the guitar. I like to write songs with it and play it at random places. Some people even tell me they like to listen.
The first things people usually notice about me
My beard always gets called out first because people want to know if I am following the new Duck Dynasty trend. But actually, I have never seen that show (got nothing against, just haven't seen it.)

I have also been told for more years than I can remember at this point that I have nice eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Where do I even begin? Haha...

Books: I read mostly to learn. I wish I had more time to read for pleasure, but at this point its more to keep up with things in the field. So, if I want to be entertained I tend to stick to movies or tv. That being said, I like to read mostly about theology/spirituality or psychology/counseling. I have also been getting into memoirs lately, when I have the time.

Movies: I'm pretty much up for anything as long as it's good (big help there, right?) I love comedies. Dumb and Dumber, The Wedding Singer, and the like. I am also a sucker for super hero movies; especially the Spider Man and Iron Man movies. Cheesy as it may have been, I loved the Avengers. I also enjoy psychological thrillers and scary movies as long as they are not just full of mindless gore and killing. I loved Shutter Island and Paranormal Activity. But honestly, I can pretty much enjoy any movie, especially if I'm watching it with good friends!

Music: I love music of all genres. If there is passion, skill, and/or a genuine message, then I can get into it. That means depending on the vibe of the day I can be jamming out to some hip hop, old hymns, hard rock, or folk music. Thrice is my favorite band (athricefan???), and there will always be a soft spot in my heart for pop punk/emo music of the late 90's. After all, I used to be in a pop punk band.

Food: Not picky at all. Will give anything a shot! I think Chinese is probably my favorite if I am going out. If I am cooking at home I love to grill up some steaks! I also love wings, but they are the best when you get them from a mom and pop restaurant.
The six things I could never do without
Books
Music
My Guitar
Friends
My Cell Phone
Faith
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What to read next and where I am heading in life.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't know that a typical Friday night really exists. Depending on the week and what I need to get done I might be doing some work or reading. However, I like to go out with friends and just hang out. Honestly, nothing beats getting a good beer. But for me, it doesn't really matter too much what I'm out doing as long as I'm with good company; be it a fun date or a group of friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to be a youth pastor. People seem to think that is interesting, haha.

I also take the songs most people listen to in the club and listen to them while I shower. They get crunk. I get clean.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
If you have read this far and think we would get along, then you should message me. I am interested in meeting fun, new people. If some new friendships come from it, that is awesome. If something more than that come's from it, that is great too, but I'm really just interested in meeting some interesting people and seeing what happens. So drop me a line and let's chat. If you're up for it, maybe we can grab a coffee or a beer sometime.

Cheers! :)