Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey there. My name is Mandy. I haven't been on a dating site in a
while. Last time was all about guys who want hook ups. Hopefully
over time things have changed or at least the filtering has. I am
here looking for a relationship.
Before you continue reading....I have every intention of
fostering-to-adopt a child before next Summer (2016). I m doing it
with or without a partner. It's something I need to do. If you are
not OK with that I understand.
I pretty much have my life together. I am a Special Needs Educator
who deals in crisis management with kids who have behavior issues.
It can get pretty intense. I deal with chairs flying and books
being chucked across the room. However, I take pride in being one
of the favorites of my school. I have a house in Forest Park and a
Mastiff Lab named Paco. He is 100+ lbs so he is a big boy.
Past relationships have let me to a final conclusion...I want my
equal. Someone who puts in the same amount of effort as me. I am
not a sugar mama nor and I gold digger. I have my own. I am just
wanting to share my life with someone special who I don't have to
babysit or compete with. I give time, you give time.
I love laughing and being silly. All my students in the school know
I am the goofy one, but always willing to listen.
I have been through a transition in my life. I had medical issues
last year that caused me to be on a weight gaining medicine, but
I'm a fighter. I am losing it more and more. I hit the gym 5x a
week, see a trainer, and take A LOT of long walks by the lake ( no
less than 6 miles at a time. Most was 10). I walk from Belmont
Harbor at the Lake to Navy Pier and back.
PS. I have been in-between light hair and dark recently. These are
Also, travelling to see you is OK at first but it becomes tiresome
and expensive. I am looking for someone who is at MOST a half hour
P.S. I despise ghetto writers. Ex. gurl u b cool ass hell. We finna
go 2 da ...bla bla bla
I am a bigger woman so if you are not into that then hey....good
luck searching. Too many men are into skinny girls. So that we are
clear: I am a bigger woman and I actually have meat on my bones. I
am a dedicated woman as you can see. I am not looking for
attention, but merely to get healthy again. Maybe you can be my gym
buddy..... If you're reading this then you already are intrigued.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as a Special Needs Educator. I deal a lot with crisis
management. I'm really great with kids and I know.how to get
through to them.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drawing. I love to pick up a pen and just go crazy. I would love to
show you my work. I am also really great with kids. It comes
natural to me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and my eyes. I am constantly asked about my eyes. They
change color so often.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
1. Dirty Dancing
2. Pretty Woman
3. The Notebook
4. Batman: The Dark Knight Rises
5. The Avengers
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My phone/charger
2. My drawing supplies
3. Pictures of my family and friends
4. A good Guy to hold me
5. A really great book
6. A great friend to laugh and act stupid with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Starting a family of my own someday
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either staying in watching a movie or having a bon fire with my
friends and neighbors. I spend a lot of time in Chicago so I would
probably be out and about too.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You love to laugh and make me laugh. I am a larger woman so if you
are OK with that then hit me up. I am not a stick by any means.
Also, ONLY contact me if you are interested in dating and
potentially a relationship. I am NOT on here for friends with
benefits. I don't trade nude pics. I don't dirty chat (right away
that is). I don't want to hear about your cock. I think you get the
point. At least I hope you do. I am only interested in potentially
dating. Respect that please. I am a lady and want to be treated as
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