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40 San Francisco, CA Man


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  • Ages 27–45
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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Dropped out of university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I grew up in the east bay and moved into the City 10 years ago and am loving every minute of it. I'm kind of addicted to tv, but I absolutely abhor reality tv, preferring dramas to The Daily Show & Colbert Report to documentaries like frontline.

I'm very very much into music, however I've never wanted to make music myself. I guess I've always felt there was enough (bad) shit out there without the need for me to contribute to the pile. However, I've tried to contribute in my own way by doing live recordings at shows (kinda geeky, I know).
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a software developer, freelancing here and there as well as working on my own project.
I’m really good at
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Walking on my hands.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music:I used to have this huge list of bands, but my taste has changed in the last few years. Of course there's the usual standbys, like Electrelane, Pinback, and Drive Like Jehu, but really, I've been getting way more into Electronic/Ambient/Downtempo/Psychill stuff lately. Some favorites of late include Bonobo, Orbital, Royksopp, Shpongle, Daft Punk, Boards of Canada, Tosca, Anything on Ultimae (Carbon Based Lifeforms, Aes Dana, Solar Fields, etc), Gramatik, Lemon Jelly, Air, Junior Boys, Pogo, Massive Attack, Fukkk Offf, Erlend Øye, Portishead, Tycho, Fischerspooner, Telefon Tel Aviv, Clams Casino, Blue Sky Black Death, etc.

I'm into all kinds of movies, from action blockbusters to foreign films to quirky independent ones to hard hitting documentaries. But let me just get this out of the way first:I don't like Wes Anderson films. I know I'm in the minority, but his movies just don't do anything for me. Some favorites include:The Star Wars Trilogy (original version), Pulp Fiction, Children of Men, Reservoir Dogs, Memento, The Big Lebowski, REC, Contact, Watchmen, Brick, Cloverfield, District 9, Religulous, Zombieland, John Carpenter flicks (The Thing, Prince of Darkness, etc)), Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Lola Rennt, LOTR, just to name a few.

TV: I (glady) cut the cord more than 5 years ago. Current Favorites: Game of Thrones, Cosmos, Les Revenants, The Walking Dead, The Daily Show, Shameless (US), The Ricky Gervais Show, Orange Is The New Black, Black Mirror, Hell on Wheels, American Horror Story, It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia
Past Favorites:Breaking Bad, The Colbert Report, The Newsroom, Trailer Park Boys, Party Down, Fringe, Entourage, Deadwood, Battlestar Galactica, Rome, Freaks & Geeks, Firefly, Life on Mars, Family Guy, Futurama, The Wire (The best show of all time).
Also, I've been watching a few choice YouTube channels a lot lately, like Vice News, Veritaserium, and am currently working my through all the videos on Sixty Symbols.

Books: You Can't Win (Jack Black), The Wheel of Time (Robert Jordan), Snow Crash & Cryptonomicon (Neal Stephenson), anything by Richard Dawkins or Jon Krakauer, The Stand (Stephen King), Contact (Carl Sagan), Red Dwarf, Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Anne Rice's Vampire Chronicles (ignore the hype, they're really good!), Empire of the East (Fred Saberhagen), to name a few.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Gadgets (Android phone & tablet, computers, etc.)
Alone time
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing pool at my favorite mission dive bar, or sometimes just relaxing at home watching a movie or playing video games.
You should message me if
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The first thing you look at in a profile is music and you like what you see in mine.