First things first, if you are interested in me you will have to
message me first. As the majority of people on here just aren't
interested in a casual open relationship.
I figure it's best to be completely upfront on here for my best
chance of success. So here it goes, I am a happily married man that
is in a long term polyamorous relationship with an amazing woman
for over 10 years. I can't say that I am looking for any one thing
in particular, but I do know that I prefer to make longer term
connections as it takes some time for me to become comfortable with
people. We are stable and sane, and most importantly drama free
(ish, I mean everyone has a bit of drama).
What I’m doing with my life
About a year ago I learned to right size my portions enabling me to
lose about 100lbs. I am currently a System Administrator for a
medium sized international company in the Peoria area. I am still
working on college (who isn't these days) for a computer networking
degree. I am also active in the disc golf community in my area
helping promote the sport through a local club. Oh yeah and I'm a
Yo-Yoing fool! ;)
I’m really good at
Yo-Yoing: Seriously! Unless you know someone else that yo-yo's a
lot I'm probably close to the best you have ever seen.
Painting Nails, Disc Golf, Troubleshooting Computers/Electronics,
& kinky stuff. ;) just to name a few.
The first things people usually notice about me
My Weight Loss: If they have known me for a long time.
My Yo-Yoing: If I am bored and in public.
My Painted Nails: Because I am a man and I stand out as a man with
painted nails. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: 1984, Animal Farm, Little Brother, Hitchhikers Guide to the
TV: Breaking Bad, Doctor Who, Simpsons, Futurama, Cartoon Network
(Chowder, Adventure Time, Courage, Fosters, etc.)
Comics: Punisher, Moon Knight, Avengers, Iron Man
Movies: Spaceballs, Aliens, Anything Marvel, John Dies at the End
(Seriously blew my mind) etc.
Music: If it sounds good I'll listen to it, but mostly Punk, Ska,
Rock, and Rap
Food: Pizza, Burgers and Wings could keep me satisfied year around.
The six things I could never do without
5.) My Blood Family
4.) My Chosen Family
1.) Captain Planet, because he's our hero.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Politics and the wrongs of the world and things that give me a
On a typical Friday night I am
Chilling at home, or out with friends and family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was in high school I had sex on the roof of a Hardee's
You should message me if
You have read my profile and are interested in getting to know me
better. I also ask that you understand you will not be the only
important person in my life if things develop.