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33 M Chillicothe, IL

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:53am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I figure it's best to be completely upfront on here for my best chance of success. So here it goes, I am a happily married man that is in a long term polyamorous relationship with an amazing woman for over 10 years. I can't say that I am looking for any one thing in particular, but I do know that I prefer to make longer term connections as it takes some time for me to become comfortable with people.

I will admit, I am a very sexual and sex driven person. This does NOT mean I am obsessed or only care about sex. It just means if I am pursuing a relationship I most likely have some sort of sexual intentions in mind. They don't have to come to fruition for me to be a friend, just don't tell me I can't have my fantasies about you. >:)
What I’m doing with my life
About a year ago I learned to right size my portions enabling me to lose about 100lbs. I am currently a System Administrator for a medium sized international company in the Peoria area. I am still working on college (who isn't these days) for a computer networking degree. I am also active in the disc golf community in my area helping promote the sport through a local club. Oh yeah and I'm a Yo-Yoing fool! ;)
I’m really good at
Yo-Yoing: Seriously! Unless you know someone else that yo-yo's a lot I'm probably close to the best you have ever seen.

Painting Nails, Disc Golf, Troubleshooting Computers/Electronics, & Cunnilingus ;) just to name a few.
The first things people usually notice about me
My Weight Loss: If they have known me for a long time.

My Yo-Yoing: If I am bored and in public.

My Painted Nails: Because I am a man and I stand out as a man with painted nails. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: 1984, Animal Farm, Little Brother, Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy
TV: Breaking Bad, Doctor Who, Simpsons, Futurama, Cartoon Network (Chowder, Adventure Time, Courage, Fosters, etc.)
Comics: Punisher, Moon Knight, Avengers, Iron Man
Movies: Spaceballs, Aliens, Anything Marvel, John Dies at the End (Seriously blew my mind) etc.
Music: If it sounds good I'll listen to it, but mostly Punk, Ska, Rock, and Rap
Food: Pizza, Burgers and Wings could keep me satisfied year around.
The six things I could never do without
6.) Laughter
5.) My Blood Family
4.) My Chosen Family
3.) Yo-Yo
2.) Pretty Girls
1.) Life Sustaining Elements
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Politics and the wrongs of the world.

That and why in the world City of Heroes had to be shut down. :(
On a typical Friday night I am
Chilling at home, or out with friends and family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was in high school I had sex on the roof of a Hardee's restaurant.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You have read my profile and are interested in getting to know me better. I also ask that you understand you will not be the only important person in my life if things develop.