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atrain440 Away

31 / F / Straight / Single

Washington, District of Columbia

Her Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
My best qualities are my sense of humor, positive demeanor and drive. I have a very good sense of self and am the kind of person who can make friends with almost anyone and as such, have a very diverse group of friends. I love meeting people and hearing their stories. I am intelligent, creative, and (com)passionate.

I have lived in the DC area for several years, after an extensive cross-country road trip and a year-long stint helping the Gulf Coast recover from Hurricane Katrina with AmeriCorps. I am very happy with where I am in this point in my life, but always look to expand my worldview and learn new things. My heart is in a perpetual state of wanderlust.

During the day I work at the intersection of communications and technology. I tend to favor all things artistic, pursuing a number of creative projects outside of my full time job. Right now I'm working on a documentary about my family tree.

I lead a very busy life and rarely do I take what I have for granted despite my schedule. I make the most of the things that matter in my life.

I'm open to anything, I just want to be able to think back on my experiences and say 1) I learned from it 2) I had the time of my life or 3) I have such a great story to tell about this later.
What I’m doing with my life
A few years ago the quote below was the catalyst for me to join AmeriCorps, and it has guided my life ever since then:

"You are not here merely to make a living. You are here to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, and with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world and you impoverish yourself if you forget this errand." ~ Woodrow Wilson
I’m really good at
Conversation
Connecting
Writing
Storytelling
Singing
Keeping perspective
The first things people usually notice about me
My physical attributes: eyes; height (I'm 5'11" tall); smile

My personality traits: creativity; lust for life/joie de vivre; intelligence; compassion; warmness; charm
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Adele, The Civil Wars, Brandi Carlile, Ray LaMontagne, Marc Broussard, Jason Mraz, Ryan Adams, The Frames, Shawn Mullins, Ingrid Michaelson, Dylan, John Legend, Ne-Yo, India Arie, Nick Drake, Beirut, Led Zeppelin, The Duhks, Common, Amy Winehouse, Sara Bareilles, Lily Allen, Imogen Heap, Raphael Saadiq, Broadway, Dave Matthews Band, Anthony Hamilton

Favorite TV Shows: Downton Abbey, New Girl, The Mindy Project, Mad Men, Modern Family, Glee, Anything on Food Network or Bravo, How I Met Your Mother, Nip/tuck, The L Word, Flight of the Conchords

Favorite Movies: Jiro Dreams of Sushi, My Architect, Frida, Shortbus, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Angels in America, City of God, Amores Perros, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, American Beauty, Alice in Wonderland, Run Lola Run, Love Actually, Almost Famous, Maria Full of Grace, Obscure Documentaries

Favorite Books: Don't read that often, but have a minor in British and American Literature...ironic, i know. Recently I've focused on reading books to further my career/goals. Lots of Design Thinking and crowdsourcing books. What else? The Tipping Point; The Fountainhead; Shakespeare

Food: LOVE food--every kind of food. Cooking it, eating it, baking it, watching it on TV. Looking for a partner in crime...
The six things I could never do without
1) Expression
2) Laughter
3) Connection
4) Passion
5) Good Friends
6) Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...how to be a better person and citizen in the world.
...is the grass really greener on the other side?
On a typical Friday night I am
usually exhausted from my week, so out with friends at a cultural event or cuddling up watching a film
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am really turned on by the music of Boyz II Men, Led Zeppelin, and Jimi Hendrix.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are:

Genuine
Honest
Communicative
Passionate
Optimistic
A positive influence on those around you
Warm
A good conversationalist

You should NOT message me if you are only interested in sex.