Sometimes, I just like to learn things because a topic fascinates me - I just read a book about the widespread use of algorithms and the rise of algorithmic trading on the stock market.
I like similarly driven and passionate people. I like it when others share ideas even if those ideas aren't things I know a lot about. I like deep experiences and connections, which can be intimate but certainly don't have to be.
In those lovely moments of free time, I'm a gamer and a theater goer. Also, a lover of music, but I rely largely on internet radio for that. Dinner and a movie or some type of show would be my ideal kind of night out.
Also, I am polyamorous. I've generally found the monogamy model doesn't work for me, and I'm currently involved in an open marriage. I'm comfortable with the idea of relationships ranging from friends, to casual/friends with benefits scenarios to long-term partners. However, if you are interested in anything beyond being platonic friends with me, you need to be comfortable with polyamory.
There will never be any pressure to define a relationship a certain way. Even if we don't end up being friends, no hard feelings. However, I'm open to all kinds of experiences on here. I like making new friends, and I also like dating. Just be honest with what you're looking for, and I'll respect that.