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atrumlicentia

27 M Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–70
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I live by the concept of forward momentum in that I like continuous improvement. This often takes the form of work as I have a tendency to juggle multiple projects and various side jobs in addition to a full time job. But it's not all about professional improvement.

Sometimes, I just like to learn things because a topic fascinates me - I just read a book about the widespread use of algorithms and the rise of algorithmic trading on the stock market.

I like similarly driven and passionate people. I like it when others share ideas even if those ideas aren't things I know a lot about. I like deep experiences and connections, which can be intimate but certainly don't have to be.

In those lovely moments of free time, I'm a gamer and a theater goer. Also, a lover of music, but I rely largely on internet radio for that. Dinner and a movie or some type of show would be my ideal kind of night out.

Also, I am polyamorous. I've generally found the monogamy model doesn't work for me, and I'm currently involved in an open marriage. I'm comfortable with the idea of relationships ranging from friends, to casual/friends with benefits scenarios to long-term partners. However, if you are interested in anything beyond being platonic friends with me, you need to be comfortable with polyamory.

There will never be any pressure to define a relationship a certain way. Even if we don't end up being friends, no hard feelings. However, I'm open to all kinds of experiences on here. I like making new friends, and I also like dating. Just be honest with what you're looking for, and I'll respect that.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a market research technology analyst, so I spend a lot of time designing and writing about consumer research on social networking, mobile technology, video games and a variety of other technology-related things.

Although I love my job and I'm comfortable there, I'm always looking to do more. I'm a regular contributor to a business technology news site, and I do some freelance writing work for a number of tech companies.

I also recently started taking a more serious interest in exercise. I'm hoping to earn back a few of the years I lost to my deep enjoyment of bacon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Attention to detail, but only when looking at large spreadsheets of technology-related consumer survey data. Otherwise, I have trouble finding things I want in my fridge.

Absorbing random and often useless knowledge. I have a rough idea of the demographics most likely to use Tumblr, and I also know how anglerfish procreate.

Finding YouTube videos to respond to nearly any situation
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hair, probably.

I was a recently told (by coworkers) that I'm too much of an introvert. I think it's more that I'm a socialization vampire - I only enter conversations that I'm invited to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Dragonlance, Harry Potter, The Misfortunes of Virtue, Water for Elephants, Forgotten Realms, Mogworld and an assortment of non fiction.

Movies: Saw, Evil Dead, Inception, Metropolis, X-Men, The Avengers.

TV shows: The Blacklist, Criminal Minds, Breaking Bad, Lie to Me, Orange is the New Black, House of Cards.

Music: Hugh Laurie, Sophie Milman, Lindsey Stirling, Peter Hollens, Within Temptation, Anais Mitchell.

Video Games: League of Legends, Path of Exile, Kingdom Rush, Minecraft, Dungeons of Dredmor, World of Warcraft.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Intimacy
My Nook
The internet
Video games
Work
Affection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Some typical things that run through my head:
Gender identity
Philosophy
How adorable/weird cats are
The fact that we will likely have computers with comparable computing power to the human brain by 2025
How we think of Shakespeare as high-brow literature while his work contains a fair number of dick jokes
Ethics in marketing
Genetically modified humans exist (also, several of them are high-school age).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends on the Friday.

On some days, I'll be out there or going to a play/movie/show of some kind. Other days, I might just be messing around on the internet and playing video games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sometimes listen to No Scrubs
I also enjoy rap songs about enterprise cloud computing platforms
I sometimes get angry about the way the telecommunications industry in the US works.
You should message me if
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Must-have:

You're comfortable with non-monogamy.

Optional:

You just want someone to hang out with or talk to. I'm game for meeting in person, but I wouldn't mind more online friends if things don't end up going past that.

You like horror movies and might be interested in going to see some.'

You're interested in going out for crepes, with the option of also having martinis.