I am Atticus Finch. Almost literally and certainly metaphorically. If you know what that entails, then you may certainly reach out to me. My kids (already young teens but wonderful polite sweet kind amazing kids) are dying for me to find a girlfriend, which is rather adorable and plays into my true heartfelt desire to find my bff soulmate love of my life. I am a divorcee and widower and have brought up these two wonderfully amazing children all by myself but now it is time to add to the joyful warmy happy awesome threesome; i would have more kids in a second and honestly.... it;s just our time, we are all ready for daddy to meet his match. If it is not my destiny i want to at least find a a tennis partner level 4.0 or above to play as much as we can. So there you have it, ladies. Atticus Finch at your service. Ready willing emotionally financially and in all ways stable able and hppeful.... for love and the happily ever after that is seemingly impossible to find, but i suppose that's why many of us are here, serendipitously searching for our match made in heaven.
What I’m doing with my life
I am an adoption lawyer with my own firm, daddy and coach for all of my kids' sports teams and avid athlete. Meditation, yoga and trying to be the best most socially conscious model for my children.
I’m really good at
Being a daddy, being a good, socially conscious person. Making
people laugh. Talking about religion in an intellectual and
spiritual way and praying that people don't kill in the name of it.
The first things people usually notice about me
According to my daughter, my lion-colored eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
ayn rand (even though she is way over the top) war and peace, hemingway, fitzgerald, dalai lama, tat nitch han, krishnamurti, hesse, mlk jr, ghandi, nelson mandela; old 50's movies, peck, hepburn, bogart, bergman, jones, stewart, hepburn k, shawshank, crying at movies like, yes, the notebook and admittedly sappy crazy girly stuff like that....and of course more manly movies like godfather hitchcock westerns deniro pacino redford newman etc etc. food.... mediterannean greek spanish portuguese sushi hamachikama all seafood and veggies and meat if it is grass fed but i could easily be a bear pescatarian and usually am.. music.... eclectic from classic rock to braxton sade usher to sinatra holiday vaughn jazz to russian classical such as rachmaninoff piano concerto #2 to barber adagio for strings to all gorgeous piano and violin.
The six things I could never do without
Children, love, sports, meditation, eastern way of being, great food, having fun, being in the moment while being able to dream, sex/sensuality/kissing/being in love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Honestly, other than my kids....... World peace, equality for all, irrespective of race , religion or sexual orientation. Why many people automatically hate those who are different and fear what they don't know. Why on earth people care about the color of someone's skin or what god someone else prays too... Why can't we all just be friends. Also, why can't i find someone with whom i can be silly yet serious loving and playful and fun and kooky goofy yet intellectual and happy happy happy happy. shit, i guess that's why i'm here, right?
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends on who I'm with and what we like
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love love.
You should message me if
You want to be friends. and lovers. and bff. and soulmates. You love kids. You believe in serendipity and sappy silly love. If all else fails, you play tennis 4.0 and want to be my doubles partner. I will take it all, if you have it all to give.