Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am Atticus Finch. Almost literally and certainly metaphorically.
If you know what that entails, then you may certainly reach out to
me. My kids (already young teens but wonderful polite sweet kind
amazing kids) are dying for me to find a girlfriend, which is
rather adorable and plays into my true heartfelt desire to find my
bff soulmate love of my life. I am a divorcee and widower and have
brought up these two wonderfully amazing children all by myself but
now it is time to add to the joyful warmy happy awesome threesome;
i would have more kids in a second and honestly.... it;s just our
time, we are all ready for daddy to meet his match. If it is not my
destiny i want to at least find a a tennis partner level 4.0 or
above to play as much as we can. So there you have it, ladies.
Atticus Finch at your service. Ready willing emotionally
financially and in all ways stable able and hppeful.... for love
and the happily ever after that is seemingly impossible to find,
but i suppose that's why many of us are here, serendipitously
searching for our match made in heaven.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am an adoption lawyer with my own firm, daddy and coach for all
of my kids' sports teams and avid athlete. Meditation, yoga and
trying to be the best most socially conscious model for my
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a daddy, being a good, socially conscious person. Making
people laugh. Talking about religion in an intellectual and
spiritual way and praying that people don't kill in the name of it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
According to my daughter, my lion-colored eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
ayn rand (even though she is way over the top) war and peace,
hemingway, fitzgerald, dalai lama, tat nitch han, krishnamurti,
hesse, mlk jr, ghandi, nelson mandela; old 50's movies, peck,
hepburn, bogart, bergman, jones, stewart, hepburn k, shawshank,
crying at movies like, yes, the notebook and admittedly sappy crazy
girly stuff like that....and of course more manly movies like
godfather hitchcock westerns deniro pacino redford newman etc etc.
food.... mediterannean greek spanish portuguese sushi hamachikama
all seafood and veggies and meat if it is grass fed but i could
easily be a bear pescatarian and usually am.. music.... eclectic
from classic rock to braxton sade usher to sinatra holiday vaughn
jazz to russian classical such as rachmaninoff piano concerto #2 to
barber adagio for strings to all gorgeous piano and violin.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Children, love, sports, meditation, eastern way of being, great
food, having fun, being in the moment while being able to dream,
sex/sensuality/kissing/being in love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Honestly, other than my kids....... World peace, equality for all,
irrespective of race , religion or sexual orientation. Why many
people automatically hate those who are different and fear what
they don't know. Why on earth people care about the color of
someone's skin or what god someone else prays too... Why can't we
all just be friends. Also, why can't i find someone with whom i can
be silly yet serious loving and playful and fun and kooky goofy yet
intellectual and happy happy happy happy. shit, i guess that's why
i'm here, right?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends on who I'm with and what we like
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to be friends. and lovers. and bff. and soulmates. You
love kids. You believe in serendipity and sappy silly love. If all
else fails, you play tennis 4.0 and want to be my doubles partner.
I will take it all, if you have it all to give.
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