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aturbin

30 M Astoria, NY

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm an attorney for children. I'm a native New Yorker. I'm an only child. I'm a lot more than the sum of all my parts. Or not, I'm not as good at math as I used to be.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I grew up in New York City and spent four years studying in Montreal. I miss that beautiful city, but NOT the 10-month-long winters. Thanks Canada for helping me to discover the temperature at which nose hairs freeze -- awful, ha.

Last year I landed a gig at The Legal Aid Society's Juvenile Rights Practice. Still at it. I like to think I'm one part lawyer, two parts social worker -- far from your average lawyer. I'd love to tell you all about it here, but I could never do it justice (no pun intended, seriously) -- I look forward to sharing more in person!

As much as I love my job, my life is not all serious -- far from it -- I play basketball in a community league in my free time, and love to spend weekends with friends all over the city, outdoors as often as possible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm pretty physically active (someone once read this as "physically attractive" -- haha, I hope you learn that I don't have it in me to be that arrogant).

Meed a ringer for your co-ed team? Like to go for a run? A bike ride?

I used to play music and genuinely hope to pick it up again as soon as possible. *Update* I just dusted off my saxophone and keyboard (teach me how to play a little piano?).

Plus, I can absolutely throw down in the kitchen.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Do not hold me to these, there are too, too many:

Book(s): The Bluest Eye (Toni Morrison), Siddhartha (Herman Hesse), Poisonwood Bible (Barbra Kingsolver)

Movie(s): Do the Right Thing (Spike Lee) and Shawshank Redemption (Stephen King)

Music: Mos Def, John Coltrane, The Roots, Charles Mingus, Talib Kweli, Nas, Ella Fitzgerald.

Food: Italian food, but really.. everything, seriously everything.

More: The Wire is, without a doubt, the best-ever TV series -- I miss each and every character -- it's as if I knew them once. And without HBO, I need someone to help me catch up on Game of Thrones and Newsroom!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My senses. More to come... details not senses (hmmm, what would I do with more senses?).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to fix things, big things, like the world.

Also, where I'm going to spend my next vacation, who I'm going to spend it with. I spend several hours on www.vrbo.com when planning one -- seriously, check it out only if you have a whole lot of time to kill.

My ideal partner would look forward to spending a weekend camping just as much as a trip to an exotic beach -- better yet, camping on an exotic beach.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Likely laying low with a few friends -- pretending we haven't gleaned most of our criticism of the sad state of politics from Jon Stewart.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm open, have no secrets -- ask away.

Also, I haven't had a drink for over 54 months. But trust that I still have a great time out in the city I was born and raised in. Yup, I still enjoy bars (dives mostly), just don't be surprised when I drink you under the table with club soda.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...my profile didn't put you too deeply to sleep.

...you'd like to learn about someone new over drinks/coffee/dessert (or all three at once).

...you need a partner on a new adventure and would like to see if we hit it off.