Ok men let's get it together here, read my profile thoroughly and completely.....if you are looking for a one night stand or feel the need to have the attention of more than one woman at a time don't message me. My profile reads loud and clear and if you don't understand it message me and I will happily explain what I am looking for. Now, if you have come this far and are still reading there might still be hope for you.....lol!!!!!!Welcome 2013: OUT WITH THE OLD AND IN WITH THE NEW!!! Very glad to see you go 2012! SELF SUMMARY....hate this part......Well I have 2 amazing kids ages 25 and 21. They are the most important people in my life. What can I say about short-term dating...what does it mean.... I am with you until something better comes along???? No thanks!!!! Casual sex...LOL. I am looking for someone real, honest, faithful who can make me laugh and who doesn't want to change me into someone I am not (there's a reason for this statement). Lately when I go into profiles and read them the spelling and grammar is so bad that I can't understand a word of what it says. GUYS if you think that spelling and grammar are not important THINK AGAIN!!! To me at least it matters especially when it's words you should have learned to spell in 4th grade. JUST SOME ADVICE: READ WHAT YOU WRITE BECAUSE IT DOES MATTER!!!!!!!!!!!!

Random thought: Some of these men's profiles are pretty cocky. They get worse by the day...."I am well traveled, went to an ivy league school and didn't live in the U.S. til I was fourteen" Ughhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!

I am Paralegal at law firm that handles criminal and immigration cases. I like it and it pays the bills and much more. I work crazy hours so keep that in mind. No 9-5 for me. I also spend lots of time with the most amazing men in my life (my kids) and I am having fun.

Take time to play! Ask for what you want! Laugh! Live loudly! Be avid. Learn new things! Be yourself!!!!!!

Take chances a lot of them. Because honestly, no matter where you end up - and with who, it always ends up just the way it should be. Your mistakes make you who you are... you learn and grow with each choice you make. Everything is worth it. Say how you feel - always. Be you and be okay with it.

Promises mean everything, but after they're broken, sorry means nothing.

A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who
means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was
never meant to be and you just have to let go.

Remember, anyone can love you when the sun is shining. In the storms is where you learn who truly cares for you.

Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably ... And never regret anything that made you smile...............

The best time to CRY is under the SHOWER, this way no one will ever know that you were SAD.

To say that one waits a lifetime for his or her soul mate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soul mates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.”

Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with
a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone
around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,
you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

Trust takes years to build, seconds to break and forever to repair.

A true relationship is having someone who accepts your past, supports your present, loves you and encourages your future.

Everything I do and I mean everything with the exception of cooking which I don't even attempt to do.

Definitely my eyes and my smile.

Just finished reading 50 Shades of Grey and I must say she has quite an imagination. I don't watch too much t.v. I like all types of music except country. Cuban cuisine has to be my favorite food as I am Cuban-American. I love Italian and Mexican and I LOVE SEAFOOD. Do not feed me sushi....just doesn't do it for me.

God
My kids
My Family
Water
My Cell
Sleep (I don't function properly without it)
My friends
My dog Apple (She's precious)
After a very rough Dec. 24th and the few days following I know that I can't live without my kids and everything else is pretty much secondary.

Yup, I know that's more than six.

I think about my kids and hope that they will be happy and make the right choices in life. My job and how I devote just too much time to it. I don't have too much faith on this site but it keeps me entertained during the day. I don't spend a lot of time thinking about it but I do wonder who comes up with these stupid questions on here to see who is a perfect match. Honestly most of these questions are irrelevant to me.I HAVE NOTICED THAT ALL MEN ON HERE ARE "ARTIST" OR AT LEAST IN THEIR MINDS THEY ARE AND THEY NEED EXTRA PAGES ON THEIR PASSPORT BECAUSE THE ONES THEY HAVE ARE FULL....OK.....SO IF YOU'RE SO INTERESTING AND LEAD SUCH AMAZING LIVES WHY ARE YOU ON OKC LOOKING FOR A WOMAN? WITH YOUR AMAZING LIVES THEY SHOULD BE LINING UP OUTSIDE YOUR DOOR....LOL.... What is it with men taking pictures in a public bathroom with the the urinals behind them? Why would a woman send them a message??? Like you had no where else to take the picture like the outdoors, at work or at home???????????? I am also thinking after an interesting conversation with someone what the heck am I doing on this site?????????? I will do something about it as soon as I figure it out. That's all for now. Why are people against gay relationships and marriage? As long as there's love that's all that's needed.

I am either out with friends or relaxing at home because I work Saturdays.

I really dislike people who are so narrow minded that they have issues with same sex relationships. This is 2013 and I honestly think there are more same sex relationships than heterosexual ones. People are just still in the closet about it because of all the hate that still surrounds them. Live and let live!!!!!

If anything on here grabs your attention. Oh and if you are into mind games DON'T BOTHER.....NOT INTERESTED IN PLAYING THEM...BEEN THERE, DONE THAT AND IT WAS BACK IN HIGH SCHOOL!!!!