First me, then me and then later it's me again and afterward if there's time I will let you know....why????....because I am selfish like that.
I am looking for someone real, honest, faithful who can make me laugh. Someone who knows when to be serious and when to joke around. This online dating is a gamble. People often write on their profile that they are looking for their soul mates. Soul mates don't just happen. It's something you work at and that's how they become your soul mate. I would really hate to think "soul mates" only happen once in a lifetime because if that's the case then I am done for and will just have to settle which I don't like doing. Right now I am just willing to let things develop. I got rid of "all the things he must be" list. I have become a little more relaxed in that department.
DON'T TAKE ANYONE OR ANYTHING FOR GRANTED BECAUSE IT COULD BE TAKEN AWAY FROM YOU IN A MINUTE. DON'T EVER GO TO BED UPSET WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE BECAUSE THEY MAY NOT BE AROUND IN THE MORNING. LEARN TO FORGIVE QUICKLY. A VERY PAINFUL LESSON TO LEARN. I LEARNED IT BUT IT WAS TOO LATE TO DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT. NOTHING IN LIFE IS GUARANTEED EXCEPT DEATH. DON'T WAIT FOR THE OTHER PERSON TO ASK FOR FORGIVENESS OR TO REALIZE THEY ARE WRONG. ALL THAT MATTERS IS THAT AT THE END OF THE DAY THEY KNOW HOW MUCH THEY MEAN TO YOU AND THAT YOU HAVE NO REGRETS AND THAT AN ARGUMENT IS JUST THAT AN ARGUMENT AND DOESN'T MEAN YOU LOVE EACH OTHER ANY LESS.