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aubre38

43 / F / straight / Single

Spanaway, Washington

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am honest, caring, and a Christian.

My Self-Summary

OK, I am new at this, so please be patient with me. I am divorced with 3 grown children and 2 grandbabies who mean the world to me. This is my first adventure back out in the dating world since my divorce two years ago. I am pretty laid back and easy going, but if something is really important to me, I can be pretty stubborn. I am told that I have a great personality and that I am a good listener. I try to always see the good in a situation and am usually a pretty positive person. God is a must in my life, and while I don't try to push my beliefs on others (that is between them and God) I am hoping to meet someone with the same beliefs as mine. Oh, and I am a dog fanatic, so if you don't like dogs, I am probably not for you.

What I’m doing with my life

I work a full time job that I like (most of the time...lol) and I am attending school, working on a business degree. I also work a part time, seasonal job at tax time. I stay pretty busy, which is party why I haven't entered the dating world as of yet. I am trying to start putting some time aside for my personal life, so we will see how that goes.

I’m really good at

hmmm...this is a hard one for me. I am great at listening and not judging. I am a people person, does that count? lol. As far as things, like sports and stuff, I don't have any real talents. I enjoy dancing, and bowling but I wouldn't say I was very good at them. I am usually the entertainment :-).

The first things people usually notice about me

I will have to ask some people! Maybe my smile? I usually smile at everyone.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

OK, this one I can answer! I will read just about anything, but my favorites are things on history, religion and facts about local places. And I have to admit to occasionally reading a mystery romance. I like comedies and movies based on true stories. I listen to a variety of music, but I would have to say Christian, country and 80's are my favorites. As far as food goes, I like a little bit of everything (unfortunately...lol) but I am kind of picky so we will have to discuss that one later.

The six things I could never do without

God, my family, my friends. OK, I only have three. Unless you include air, food and water.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I mostly think about my kids and grandkids and their futures. I try not to do a lot of thinking, it usually just brings on anxiety...lol. I try to just live in the present.

On a typical Friday night I am

Home. I am usually either doing homework, babysitting a grandchild, or relaxing. This is why I need a life! lol.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Well...I guess that I am just a wee bit stubborn at times and maybe just a teeny little bit hard to live with. I've been told it's the Irish in me. ;-).

You should message me if

You are a Christian (you don't have to be totally absorbed in a church, just have strong beliefs in God) and if you are willing to take things slow. I am looking for my best friend who will become my partner in life.