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29 San Diego, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:06pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Two-year college
Might want kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I find it hard to summarize myself into neat categories. I'm in the military, but I'm quite liberal. I'm nerdy, but also like to watch some sports and work out. I enjoy serious and deep conversations, but I'm also silly and am not afraid of unleashing my inner child.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently finishing up my time in the Navy (sort of like prison, but with better pay and benefits). I've learned a lot and had some great experiences, but it's time to move on and go back to school. I'm really excited to be a student again soon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Generally, I would say problem solving and observing the big picture. I have a good memory and love learning new things. I can recall the most random information sometimes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hmm...I guess that I'm tall. Once we get into a conversation, most people say I'm like a human encyclopedia.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Infinite Jest, Hyperion, As I Lay Dying, Blood Meridian, Brave New World, 1984, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy.

Also lots of non-fiction by Carl Sagan, Oliver Sacks, Daniel Dennett, Michael Pollan, Steven Pinker, Mary Roach, Michael Lewis, etc.

Movies: I like most movies that are generally considered "good". I guess I prefer movies with depth and some sort of strangeness or unique quality to them. Kubrick, Tarantino, Lynch, etc.

Food: Does awesome beer count? I love to cook and I love all sorts of food. At one time I considered going to culinary school, but decided it would take the fun out of cooking. Indian food is awesome. Anything with a tasty sauce, really. Oh, and a good barbecue is always awesome.

Music: I like all sorts of genres. However, I usually stick to the more underground and experimental side of things. I love stuff that brings together different genres, typically with unusual song structures.

Lately I guess I've been listen to a lot of indie rock. Vampire Weekend, Arcade Fire, Animal Collective, Beach House, etc. I'm not afraid to blast some Taylor Swift or Lana Del Ray though... I could go on practically forever about music though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Life, the universe, and everything. But more specifically, music would be up there (assuming we forget about the boring essentials). The other senses are pretty awesome too though. I do love seeing and tasting things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How pretty much anything works, on different levels.

The human mind and all its crazy geniuses and flaws.

How I can make my own meaning in life; in a way that actually seems meaningful.

How twelve musical notes and a relatively limited amount of rhythms and song structures can make up so much an amazing variety of music.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hillcrest and North Park are my main hang out areas. Most of the time I'd rather go to a place with good food and craft beers instead of a packed club. However, I don't like to rule out most experiences and can be convinced to go wherever.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My sense of humor can be very inappropriate and can get me into trouble.
You should message me if
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I'm looking for people that are into actual conversations and not just short back and forth messages. And if the conversation goes well then I would like it if you are actually open to meeting and you know...actually dating.