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  • Ages 27-42
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Last online
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5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Catholicism but it’s not important
Post grad
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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So I'm a conservative gay--and the older I get, the more I realize that's pretty unusual, especially given that the general population seems to have forgotten what it means to be a conservative (it doesn't mean being a Republican and it doesn't mean being against gay rights!) I seem to have an easier time than most accepting that I may not meet others expectations, and that doesn't really bother me any (unless it's my boss!) I'm quick-witted, sarcastic, laid-back, fun-loving, and intellectual. I prefer people with some quirks--just not too many! I'm a realist and can't stand whiners or the utopia lovers. Life is what it is: let's make the most of it!

I am talkative, discerning, and varied
What I’m doing with my life
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I just finished my MBA, so now begins the process of figuring out how best to USE it. I currently work in the Quality Improvement Department for UMHS, and also as a communications consultant and trainer on the side. In my spare time, I'm active with the Jaycees, and am the business manager for a local men's choir called "Measure for Measure."
I’m really good at
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Entertaining, socializing, conversations, meeting people, trivia, singing, debate, shopping, fashion, talking...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Spiky hair and funky shoes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Harry Potter, The Catch Trap, The Power of One, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, A Murder in the Cathedral, Freakonomics, anything by Robert Jordan, David Eddings, or Terry Brooks.

Movies: I love going to the movies, and make it a goal every year to see all of the Best Picture nominees. Some favorites: Contact, Avatar, Slumdog Millionaire, Atonement, Hairspray, Harry Potter, Little Miss Sunshine, The Queen, Moulin Rouge, Lord of the Rings, X-Men, Capote, Brokeback Mountain, High School Musical, The Bourne Trilogy.

Music: I like esoteric stuff like Kate Bush and Jeff Buckley, love listening to good classical music that I can conduct in my living room with whatever miscellaneous object is most handy, and I enjoy most popular music. If it has a good beat, is singable, and doesn't sound like distorted garbage, I probably like it. However, I'm horrible at remembering lyrics--unless, of course, it's a song I don't like.

Food: Well, I like food. Polish, Italian, and French heritages kind of took over while growing up, and my mom was an excellent cook, so, I LOVE food is probably more accurate. I think going to a great restaurant and trying something new can be a fun social experience. Food is meant to be enjoyed: someone needs to hurry up and develop that pill so we can eat what we want and not have to worry about it!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Great shoes, my iPad, my wallet, a water bottle, music, and time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What motivates people...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the movies or out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't think I could ever have too many pairs of shoes--its my biggest vice.
You should message me if
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You're not intimidated by an independent spirit, like being on the go, looking for a shopping buddy, or want to catch a show.