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aughtbee

31 / M / straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

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White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
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Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English, French, Spanish

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I am using terrible, internet connection, and it's killing me.

My Self-Summary

I recently moved here after living/volunteering abroad and have been, among other things, perfecting breakfast.

My mom was recently exasperated with her 74-yr-old friend's unending struggle to find purpose in life, and said, "You get to drink coffee, you get to look at flowers, you get to walk around!" This captures the way I think about life, too. Sometimes I find a paycheck on the ground.

Lots of folks on here say they're "brutally honest." It seems unnecessary to me - it's possible to be honest, yet not brutal, isn't it?

I'm communicative, empathetic, very liberal, not as unfunny as this sentence makes me sound, and enthusiastically non-religious. I love studying foreign languages, even if the discipline ebbs and flows.

All the love in the heart of Maine would fit in one long, loveless straight marriage. Those bastards would vote themselves back into the feudal system if given the choice.

What I’m doing with my life

I spent a while after college single-mindedly putting out records, playing shows, touring, etc. In the past couple years I've done some teaching and working with immigrants, and now I work in public radio. I still play music, too.

I’m really good at

Seeming stupid when I play cards, second-guessing my first impressions, writing songs, adapting to new places, not being bored

The first things people usually notice about me

Harrison Ford (if we're hanging out)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

this week dan savage's podcast has accounted for most of my media exposure.

some recent books I liked: Geography of Nowhere, Fun Home, Gaviotas, Snow Crash, Sun Also Rises, Blood Meridian, and The God Delusion

Love and Death/Hannah and Her Sisters by Woody Allen, Afterlife, Celebration, Cronocrimenes, No Country for Old Men, Dr. Strangelove, Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown. Is Annie Hall a given? I think so.

This question is a rabbithole into a universe where I don't shut up...I figure that if I had to pick one song to survive humanity, it would be "Santa Fe" by Bob Dylan (it's on youtube).

fake duck, pupusas, mint chocolate chip ice cream (these are foods)

The six things I could never do without

my friends and family
the public library
my four-track
that video about the blind guy who climbed everest
long mornings
my key to the zoo

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Songs, how to turn my nieces and nephews into little radicals without my sister catching on, 30 Rock, Mitch Hedberg

On a typical Friday night I am

it always seems like friday night arrives like a baby on the doorstep, and all you can really do is say "oh shit! what do we do??" and by the next day the baby has disappeared.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm nuts about "In Too Deep" by Genesis, and my feelings were validated when I heard the This American Life episode that Phil Collins was on (Breakup Songs). This is actually the only private thing there is about me.

You should message me if

i lent you money or you are a woman who is independent, sweet, and passionate about something in her life