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  • Ages 53–63
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:06am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Used up
Mostly anything
Very often
Christianity, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Has a kid
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Catalan (Poorly), French (Poorly), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I have sense of humor about life, but also believe that each person owes a debt to humanity for the space that he/she takes up on this earth. I have no sympathy for social intolerance, i.e., I can't stand philistines or neo-fascists. These political and cultural prejudices of my own (LOL) notwithstanding, I am interesting, well-educated, and well-balanced.
What I’m doing with my life
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Practicing law and writing a huge novel! It's my first piece of fiction in more than 30 years. I'm very, very excited about the story; it's a lot better than those self-indulgent short stories of my 20s. Every writer frets that his/her skills will not match the vision but I am pleased with the work so far. When it sells, I'm off to Barcelona where I intend to write more stories, both fiction and non-fiction. Hell, I may even take up painting!

12/05/14 Update: I am approaching 75,000 words (300 pages) with 25,000 to go. I've also decided, after five years on OKCupid, that it is time to forget about love and to resume my journey. Alone. I will spend these next six months finishing the novel and preparing to remove myself to Europe. Based upon the outcomes in so many of the mid-term elections last month, it almost feels like I'm going into exile. LOL
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, understanding, speaking, and writing. Oh yes, I almost forgot, I'm really good at loving someone. LOL The catch is that I've suddenly become incredibly picky. I can't decide if it's cynicism or fear or a bit of both. LOL
The first things people usually notice about me
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are my blue eyes, my moustache, my smile.

NOTE: To that certain woman in New York City. My moustache and I had a brief conversation about your email. My moustache quite agrees with you. Yes, you are rather superficial.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have too many favorites in my ken to choose just several of each, but certainly it would include almost everything written by Nikos Kazantzakis; almost everything directed by David Lean; almost everything sung by Ray Charles, and almost everything cooked by those guys in the back at China King!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
are my beloved daughter, although she would protest, no doubt, that she is not a thing; my ability to laugh -- even at myself, at times; a good night's sleep -- it refreshes my heart and soul; Paillard Chamber Orchestra's recording (Erato) of Pachelbel's Canon in D major; a hot shower; a good red, and a cheeseburger from Dick's on Capitol Hill in Seattle. And, just to be truly rebellious: Standing in front of a Modigliani at the National Gallery.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why intelligent people often insist on behaving in counter-productive ways and why I sometimes feel like damaged goods. Sometimes, mostly at night, I also think about how it's one thing to be lonely during the day and quite another to be lonely in the night. In my younger days when I was a knuckle-dragging Neanderthal, I used to contemplate my navel, but then, I got old. *sigh*
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working on the novel.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that my daughter says I can never get married again because I suffer from the Elizabeth Taylor Syndrome: I think if you sleep with them, you've got to marry them!

NOTE: To all those women who wrote either expressing concern about my psychological health or suggesting that I needed a time out from relationships, this line was a joke. I made it up! I originally was going to call it the Mickey Rooney syndrome. But then, figured you all would think I was short. Now, instead of being short, I'm crazy! Good grief! LOL LOL LOL LOL
You should message me if
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you are a beautiful, intelligent, and kind goddess. OK, ok, you also can message me if you are a slightly suspicious, but beautiful, intelligent, and kind goddess.

The truth of the matter is that I'm looking to fall in love for the last time in my life, and so, I suppose I should conclude this profile on a serious note. There is so much more to be said, but it simply would be wonderful to spend the last 24 years of my life on this earth with someone who loves me as much as I love them. This is a very easy phrase to write, but sometimes I do despair of ever finding that deep and abiding love and trust I have been seeking since I was a young man. No life -- however well-lived -- is without its regrets and I suspect this will be the one written about me: He never found her.