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40 Lexington, KY Cis Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 34–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:09pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Full figured
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Quirky nerd girl seeks similarly nerdy guy companion for wacky adventures in tabletop/ video games, movies, and general shenanigans of the type that couples normally find themselves getting up to.

I may have grown up in small town KY, but I'm as far away from that stereotype as I can possibly get. If you're looking for someone to go to sportsball games, hunting, fishing, 4 wheel riding, or you think your truck/motorcycle is going to impress me - we aren't a good match. Same goes if you're looking for someone to have children with or raise children. I'm childfree, sterile, and happy that way.

I'm not a Christian, and I've done my homework on this. I hope you have, too. I don't care what your faith is, or if you have one. That's totally up to you. But if you prioritize someone sharing your Christian faith, we're not going to work out as romantic partners.

I don't support your sportsball team. Or ANY sportsball team.

And, just in case the photos didn't make it clear, I'm a fat girl. A size positive, non-self-hating fat girl.
What I’m doing with my life
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A lifetime of remarkably mundane choices and a desire for a career led me into the wilds of accountancy and government purchasing. It's much more Byzantine than you might imagine.

For fun I like to spend my time in all manner of nerdy activities, like D&D and other tabletop games, video games, and movie marathon parties with friends. I enjoy books in all formats - print, electronic, and audiobooks. There is something very soothing about someone reading a story to you.

I enjoy learning more about a variety of subjects that interest me, from Medieval history to paranormal research, different schools of magical practice, tarot reading, and subjects such as politics, physics, finance, and information technology.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, joyful fangirl geekery, Excel spreadsheets, making jewelry, knitting Jayne hats, playing in thunderstorms, dry, intelligent sarcasm, and writing, though you wouldn't know it from this particular text box.

Also, cake. Which is not a lie.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Apparently, it's the green eyes and glasses. Sometimes it's my cowboy boots. They're very impressive boots.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite...books? I think there's a text limit to these boxes. But as far as authors, there's Terry Pratchett, Neil Gaiman, Jim Butcher, Douglas Adams, Anne McCaffrey, Ilona Andrews, Sharon Kay Penman, and I have a weakness for history trivia vignette books.


TV is nerd issue standard. I am a Whovian (and the answer, in case you're wondering is Nine/Eccleston), A Browncoat, my favorite captain is Picard, I still miss Herschel, and I think making a television show focusing on Jim Gordon is a bloody brilliant way to do the Batman narrative. Bear in mind that not listing a show in this section doesn't mean that I don't watch it or I'm not familiar with it.

Movies - again, nerd issue standard. Superheroes, gigantic robots, quirky comedies, and others where stuff blows up a lot. On the other side, there's the cerebral, historical, and political dramas that fascinate me. I'm one of two people I know who think a double feature of Good Night and Good Luck and Frost/Nixon is a great Saturday night.

Podcasts - Welcome to Nightvale, The Thrilling Adventure Hour, The Bugle, The Black Tapes Podcast.

Video Games - Mostly RPGs like Final Fantasy, but I love a well made 2d side scroller like Castlevania:Symphony of the Night or Super Metroid. I also enjoy action games like Portal, Bioshock, Resident Evil, Silent Hill, or the original Devil May Cry.

Tabletop Games - D&D (except 4e), GURPS, FATE, Fiasco, Gloom, Unspeakable Words, Cards against Humanity

Music - Let's call it eclectic with New Wave/Alternative taking the lead. My favorite band ever is XTC. My current favorites are The Decemberists, Mumford & Sons, Regina Spektor, Guster, Ben Folds, They Might Be Giants, Ok Go, Weird Al Yankovic and Jonathan Coulton. I miss The White Stripes, and greatly enjoy The Black Keys. I can't abide top 40 pop country. Seriously. I break out into hives.

Food - I love to cook when there are people to feed. I will often cook dinner for my D&D campaign group when we meet. I am not a sensitive/picky diner. I do prefer to dine at locally owned places (including food trucks) instead of chain restaurants as much as possible.

I'm also a beer snob, though I'm not a huge fan of overly hopped beers such as IPAs. There's more to a craft beer than being hit in the mouth with hops. I don't take being a beer snob too seriously. I would not only make smoked coffee bourbon barrel aged porter and call it "Hipster Pretentions", I would also drink it and mock myself for doing so.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Witty conversations
My awesome nerdy friends
A comfortable bed
My cats
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why a spoon, cousin? Why not an axe?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The same thing we do every night, Pinky.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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William Shatner flipped me off once. Okay, so that's not exactly private, but it is funny. He probably doesn't remember me.
You should message me if
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You like it when girls talk nerdy to you, and are willing to hold up your end of a conversation.

You have a T40 TARDIS and you know that saying "Nice to meet you. Run for your life!" can make a girl fall in love with you.

You want to help me hurl invective at my d20. Damned thing almost killed me last time.