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autumnguy50

51 / M / gay / Single

Wichita, Kansas

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am masculine, out going, and mystical.

My Self-Summary

I am new to this, I've seen that phrase alot here! I am a very open and honest guy, who believes in honesty between people, and loyalty not just in a relationship but with all people. I'm a non-judgemental person, so don't worry about anything your afraid or imbarased to talk about. I am active and enjoy outings of all sorts, I love bowling, and enjoy the arts. I am blond and blue eyed, and some silver showing on the sides, but still very young and alive inside. I enjoy the out-doors and nature. I have two miniature dachshunds which are very loveable, one female short haired black and tan, and the other is a male long haired red. I am a veteran of the Air Force. I lived my younger years in Sanford, Florida, at age 12 my parents moved to Upstate New York, to Apapachin, NY, and then to a small town called Newark Valley. I fell in love with the area and dream of going back someday. I especailly love a New England Autumn, there's nothing on earth more beautiful in my opinion. I like movies, walks in nature-especially under the stars, eating out, cooking, and my favorite food by the way is oriental, and italian. I love romantic settings, and eating by candle light. I am a clean cut person and I don't smoke, but I do socially drink once in a while, but not a bar person. I look forward to meeting you and talking with you, and lets see if we find that spark and ignight a fire. By the way I am AIDS AND HIV NEGATIVE, NO STD, wouldn't have it any other way, I do perfer being a Bottom Guy which doesn't affect my masculinity any. I am a very intuitive and a spiritual individual (mystical sense), but not much into organized religions. I am somewhat nervous about dating on-line as I have never done this, so call it another first. I am also hearing impaired and wear hearing aids, but I can still hear a bit without, and I do have a desire to learn ALS when and where I can find courses here in Wichita, Kansas that teach it. I love to sing and can still carry a tune pretty well. I don't dance but am willing to learn if you'll teach me. I really am looking for Mr. Right or that someone Special, and I know I will find him sooner or later, hopefully sooner. I love children, I feel they are our future and they need to be trained and prepared for the future to come, so if you have children thats great I don't mind, I was a single parent dad for 20+ years. I am very domesticated if you know what I mean( but masculine), there is nothing that isn't too difficult in a home setting for me to handle. I am also an Air Force Veteran, spent six years in, at Myrtle Beach, AFB, SC, Davis-Monthan AFB, AZ, and lastly McConnell AFB, Kansas. So if your interested contact me and lets get to know one another.

What I’m doing with my life

I am basically taking it easy, taking one day at a time. I live in the here and now as I desire to live life to its fullest. I am thinking of going to Wichita State University and taking some courses for personal development and ALS. I am interested in keeping fit, and am considering joining the YMCA to burn off a few extra pounds. I also like some organic foods and enjoy gardening, even though I live in an apartment I have some 40 pots of vegetables and fruit trees. I guess you can say I have a green thumb, I can grow anything from seed. I love house plants, and have several christmas cactus' and miniature palm, and some tropical plants as well, small one's. I am really into piano music of all kinds, and desire to learn someday. I am reading a lot of spiritual books learning more about mysticism, and psychic abilities, and the likes, and I find it very interesting. I like keeping a personal journal in hopes of writing an autobiography someday. I am working on improving my artist abilities in hopes of becoming a famous artist someday, and sell my works. I am also trying to teach myself Swedish, but would rather take a course, or know someone who speaks the language, and learn the in's and out's. I am very much into reading at the moment, tarot books, learn to channel, famous 20th Century Mystics, and automatic writing and such. I am enjoying digital photography, and have some wonderful pictures which would make great wall hangings. God I could go on, but I'll stop here.

I’m really good at

I am good at art, painting, ceramics, working with children, and helping people. I am a people person, and a very good listener who keeps things confidential. I also provide a shoulder to cry on if you need that. I like doing volunteer work here and there as needed. I work with handicapped children a lot, and have learned alot about my self in the process. I enjoy bowling, photography, cooking (from a recipe of course). I like beading, painting. I also like building and assembling models, and such. I'm great a gardening and growing things. I can grow apples and oranges and anything else from seed.

The first things people usually notice about me

I am very out-going and friendly, and I am an honest person, people know that what I say is the truth, I wouldn't have it any other way. I am blond but graying on the sides, and I have striking blue eyes, and a warm smile. I am six foot tall and weight 235 but I am losing weight, there were many goodies this past holiday season and I over indulged. People notice my kindness and generosity, and see that I care for the homeless and others in need. Also that I'm tanned as I like to sun naked, no tan lines for me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

My favorite books are the Tolken Lord of the Rings Series, and I also like art books of all sorts, and adult male books, I also enjoy reading nature books, and angel/spiritual books. I love easy listening music and pop-music, a little bit of classical, but I'm absolutely not into rap or reggie, I do like some country as well. I love Asian food and Italian food, but not crazy about mushrooms, liver, and organ meats. I like some seafood, and various other types of foreign foods like Indian Curry, and some Mexican Foods. Of course like most people, I love most kinds of deserts, in moderation that is. I love diet cokes but I am trying to break the habit and drink more water. I love comedies and musicals, but not into anything with a lot of violence and killing. I like sci-fi and action movies, there again with very little violence. I am a peaceful sort of guy.

The six things I could never do without

Wow. I couldn't do without my dogs for one, I have two miniature dachshunds, so loveable and very smart. I couldn't do without peace and quiet sometimes, as I enjoy meditating. I couldn't do without walks in nature and watching the moon and stars and wondering who or what may be out there. I guess I would have to add money as that is something everyone can't live without. I couldn't do without hobbies, as it is a form of self-expression, and relaxation. I can't do without Love and Sex, and Cuddling.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I would love to see the world change its waring nature to one of peace, and see mankind finely live together in harmony. I think we all can do something to make the world a better place even if it is something as simple as giving someone a compliment or a smile. I think a lot about angels and the behind the scenes help thats out there. I think of all the happiness and joy my new love and I will share together, and I am looking for a lifelong relationship thats based on trust and honesty, and just plain love, and I can't forget sex with that special someone.

On a typical Friday night I am

I'm taking it easy and relaxing, maybe a movie or dinner out at some Oriental or Italian Restaurant, and before going to bed maybe read a book and watch some TV, and perhaps some restful music.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am a very sensitive person, I am a very feeling person, senstive to what others are feeling, and sometimes what they are thinking, as I am an intuitive and a sensitive, I am also empathic. I am not an English Major and my spelling isn't perfect so please disregard any errors I've made, I admit I'm not perfect in some areas, but then who is? Just so long as we strive to better ourselves in all that we do is important. I also enjoy nudity, such as walking around the house in my birthday suit, and would like someday to go to a nudist camp, or join a gay male nudist group if one was available, or just walking on the beach nude.

You should message me if

If you'd like to get acquainted and share some e-mails or time together you can call me at(316)262-2503 home or(316)734-1291 cell or IM/e-mail me at autumnguy7@att.net, and if you like what you read and are interested I would love to hear from you, don't be shy, lets get to know each other.