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26 M Gent, Belgium

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Last Online
Jul 28
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hi, I'm Frederik, a 26 year old sceptical (in a good way! - as Tim Minchin would say) computer geek from Belgium who absolutely loves reading, cooking (and eating), singing, dancing, sports, travelling, CouchSurfing, films and climbing random things despite my fear of falling. Usually not all of those at once though (I tend to burn food when I try to combine cooking with any other action).

I absolutely love all sorts of knowledge, fun facts and just general Quite Interesting (bonus points if you know this quiz!) stuff and I adore a nice absurd sense of humour.
What I’m doing with my life
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Over three years ago, I spent half a year working as an intern in Shenzhen (China), a few weeks later I graduated from the PIH in Kortrijk and quite quickly found a job as an Outsystems Delivery Manager in Brussels. In the meantime I've travelled in China and South-East Asia again for about half a year, but eventually moved back to Ghent where I've been working as a .Net IT consultant and where I had a rather long term relationship until recently.

When I'm not working (which unfortunately isn't nearly as often as I'd like) or travelling, I usually go to folk-festivals, Balfolk* and gigs to listen and/or dance, go climbing, visit friends, watch a movie or some series, read a book, play some sports or pretend I'm working.

*For those who have no idea what that is (shame on you! ;-) see:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
talking, usually. Or so they tell me, at least. And the fact that I know they tell me must mean I'm not extremely bad at listening either (I'm actually way too curious not to listen carefully).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Fantasy! Like Susanna Clarke, David Edding, Elizabeth Haydon, Dan Simmons, J.K. Rowling (yes, I love the Harry Potter series) and many, many others.
Also sci-fi, comedy, thrillers and just about any non-fiction book or science magazine that interests me. And manga, if I'm allowed to call those "books" ^_^
Though actually, I'd probably read anything that's available around me when I get bored or when I'm waiting on something or someone.
Currently I'm reading Bill Bryson's "At Home", "The Second Sex" from Simone De Beauvoir and "God is not great" from Christopher Hitchens.

Movies: Fantasy (I assume everyone knows Lord of the Rings?), anime (Ghost in the Shell SAC!, Ponyo on the cliff, Rurouni Kenshin), romantic/comedy (e.g. Love Actually, Yes Man, Pride and Prejudice, Le Fabuleux Destin d'Amélie Poulain), sci-fi (X-Men, The Dark Knight), drama (The Truman Show, Hero, El laberinto del fauno) and QI! Really love watching series too (Fringe, The IT Crowd, Sherlock, Futurama, etc)

Music: Just about anything (if it's not too extreme), but mainly folk, pop and prog-rock. Right now loving 77 Bombay Street, Pie p. Klein, Night Bats, Tiger Lou, Agnes Obel, Urban Trad and so much more.

Food: Yes, please!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Maybe "never" is a bit of a strong word, but here goes (in no particular order of importance):
* Dancing (can't stop this any more I'm afraid, though I would not have believed you if you told me I would turn out this way 6 years ago)
* Internet (gotta love [almost] instant information)
* Good and usually quite healthy food (emphasis normally on "good" though)
* Communicating
* Travelling
* Sports
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
dancing, playing sports, or watching a movie with friends
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex
You should message me if
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- You're interested in getting to know me better (surprise!)
Please do make your message a bit more interesting than just "Hi, how are you?" though ;-)