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avatarzan

55 M Wailuku, HI

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 29
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Hospitality
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I seek a relationship with one unique woman. You possess an extraordinary intellect and beautiful heart, are spiritually inclined, have mostly evolved beyond drama, are fit and athletically inclined, attractive, have a mischievous and irreverent nature coupled with a keen sense of humor and a kind disposition. You are a unique, independent woman with a career or vocation of passion. You don't need someone else to take care of you, but you appreciate that I have your back.
We respect our unique identities. I'm not looking for a maid, nanny or housewife, I can take care of myself just fine; I'll be happy to take care of you. We are in this together for our mutual benefit: laughter, loving, companionship, care giving, carnal delights, consultation, conspiracy, criticism, laughing at each other and the world, support & nurturing.
We aspire to honest communication, respect one another & are committed to both. We trust one another. There are certain things only we do together. If you are right for me I'll always do my best to take care of you and I will be true.
I enjoy living simply but have a few indulgences. I am a business owner and spend a good deal of time in that pursuit. I am not a zealous over-achiever yet I work hard. Fame and fortune are not my motivations, yet enjoy living comfortably. I believe we have an infinite amount to be grateful for and a serious responsibility not to be serious. But I need reminding sometimes. We help each other in that department. Gratitude is an esteemed virtue.
I am an articulate, intelligent, principled, tolerant, kind and caring man with a great sense of humor. I value my good health and strive to maintain it with a focus on exercise and diet. We are what we eat...with all our senses. I hope this is in your nature as well; that’s an important consideration.
I'm working on becoming a better communicator: learning and actively putting in the effort to change that. I feel honesty is key to intimacy.
I place importance on metaphysical pursuits: meditation, yoga, realization, inquiry etc. Politically and consciously I am an anti-war, anti-state, libertarian-anarcho-capitalist. I like most music, and I'll tolerate yours even if I don't, movies are fun but I rarely watch TV, unless it's a very important sporting event! There’s a good chance that you may find me either tragically boring or delightfully entertaining, hopefully the latter. Roll the dice...
What I’m doing with my life
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Here’s how I currently occupy my time: work, work, and work. I enjoy it but seek a soft diversion to circle the square. I do find time for: Aikido, Tai Chi, cycling, yoga, remodeling my house, enjoying my business, reading great books, the beach, music, fine dining, cinema, meditation - not necessarily in that order.
I enjoy having my own business for the freedom and autonomy it provides. It's pretty cool and a lot of fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the bigger picture and focusing on details when necessary, and sometimes it's the other way around. Impartiality, mediation, remodeling, design, teaching.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Breath
2. Water
3. Food
4. Laughter
5. Lists
6. Several major organs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things that don't matter too much really...
The mind is a dangerous neighborhood, best not to venture there alone, and or Don't believe everything (anything) you think.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the Shunshinkan Aikido dojo unless I'm with you of course!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a spy.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you're curious - fortune favors the bold. I like bold women.