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25 Saint Louis, MO Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Mar 29
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Working on masters program
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I have an adventurous sense of wonder about the world. There are so many interesting things to know and touch and see and feel, and I want to experience it all through the lens of childlike wonderment, tinting everything with significance and novelty.

I enjoy learning about the human experience through introspective reflection on my own experiences during my interactions with the world and cultivating relationships with those around me. I think socialization is important in that being a social animal lets one grow as a person. I think the journey is often more important than the destination and that the best way to get to know and grow closer to someone is through shared experience. I also think that discovering and knowing oneself, really and truly, is one of the noblest and most important goals in life. This requires a lot of honesty, with oneself and with the people in one's life, so I guess I'd say I'm pretty good at those things.

Despite being more of an artsy person, I enjoy learning about science and psychology and zoology (among so many other things). I know that wasps can recognize the faces of other wasps that they know and that only half of a dolphin's brain is asleep at any one time (otherwise they'd drown) and many other things. If you're interested, we can talk about them. I know lots of things about lots of things.
What I’m doing with my life
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Lately I've been listening to NPR and meeting a lot of new people. This Fall I'll be attending graduate school for a Masters Degree in Social Work with a focus in sexuality (despite studying Art and Creative Writing in college).
I’m really good at
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Adventures, whimsy, imagination, empathy, making people laugh, being emotionally mature while being (charmingly) immature about certain other things (because life is about more than just maturity), being very sex-positive (I'm even down with/interested in polyamory and alternative lifestyles), talking intelligently about Art and Writing, playing some guitar, singing in the car and shower, and mailing messages in bottles to people (it's not just for the ocean anymore!).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: No One Belongs Here More Than You by Miranda July, Cruddy by Lynda Barry, Willful Creatures by Aimee Bender, and other short fiction or poetry that's kind of in the same vein. I also read some fantasy/scifi. Plus and also: lots of comic books and graphic novels of varying genres. And Achewood! If you love it, too, we'll probably get along swimmingly.

MOVIES: I watch a lot of different stuff.

TV (in no particular order): Archer, Arrested Development, Game of Thrones, The Following, Sherlock, Hannibal, The X-Files, American Horror Story, The Wire, The Office, Parks and Recreation, 30 Rock, The IT Crowd, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Seinfeld, etc.

I hate reality TV.

MUSIC: Bob Dylan, Bright Eyes, Andrew Bird, Elliott Smith, Neutral Milk Hotel, Har Mar Superstar, Spoon, David Dondero, Ted Leo and the Pharmacists, and many, many more. I like mostly indie/folk/alternative, but I'll listen to pretty much anything. Not really into top 40, besides dancing to it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why goats' pupils are rectangular (UPDATE: I've discovered why, but it's still interesting), the wonders of evolution and the animal kingdom, performance art, Marina Abramovic, being in touch with my body and its processes, human (and animal) sexuality and everything to do with it, BDSM, kink, polyamory, feminism, social justice, where hard science and soft science converge, psychosomaticism, the power of suggestion, social psychology and the science of lying, folklore, language and etymology, shapes, carrion flowers, and Natalie Portman's eyebrows.
You should message me if
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You want to know more about me, or if something on my profile resonates with you.

Or if you can recognize and wonder at the simplest and strangest of things.

Or if you can and want to talk intelligently about Art.

Or if you're into sex-positivity, sexology, and/or kink and want to talk about or know more about those things.

Or if you can teach me something new.

Or if you want to go Calvin-and-Hobbesing with me.

If for some reason I look at your profile and you don't hear from me, that doesn't necessarily mean that I don't want to hear from you :).