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64 • El Cerrito, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 42–62
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 22
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Other, and somewhat serious about it
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
I'm a soulful, playful, bright, affectionate, and dynamic man who has done a great deal of self-work. I'm looking for a fellow explorer who loves to listen and learn as much as they love life itself -- whether it be savoring truffles, walking in nature, singing with or dancing to a song, or flowing with any of the universe's many surprises.
I am privileged to be a psychic, and share this gift professionally. Along with being a therapist, I am also a professional Western and Vedic astrologer, and distribute and review astrology software. (Early in my life, I was a science "whiz-kid" and participated in advanced programs through my graduate work in neurochemistry.)
When I'm not working, I love to have adventures, find beauty in the little things, and share life with my incredible friends.
I really appreciate conscious communication and authentic sharing, and find my connection with people to be sacred and an amazing journey in and of itself.
Favorite music: I love music and like exploring new music. I particularly love beautiful voices and harmonies, like The Wailin Jennys, Sarah McLachlan, Girlyman, Donna De Lory, Neil Young, Simon & Garfunkel, George Harrison, The Beatles, ELO, and Ravi Shankar.
Favorite books: The Sufi stories of Idries Shah, After the Honeymoon, The Game of Life by Florence Scoville Schinn, Testimony of Light by Helen Greaves, Light on Life by Hart de Fouw, The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer and You are the one you've been waiting for by Richard Schwartz.
I also enjoy reading mysteries like those of Michael Connelly and Anne Perry. And really love "So you think you can dance."
Favorite foods: Thai food, Chinese food, French cuisine, organic cooking, and excellently prepared seafood. And of course my homemade chocolate truffles.
walks and the gym
learning and growing
And you want a partner who:
Listens well and processes deeply
Is affectionate and giving
Likes nature and walks (and hikes)
And works to stay aligned and clear
(and makes great chocolate truffles)
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