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awake_unafraid

27 F Atlanta, GA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 30
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly kosher
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, and very serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm the kind of woman who's had men scared off by my strength and unwillingness to compromise who I am but I believe that one day I'll find someone who will love me because of that strength rather than in spite of it. I'm someone who will eat on a date and possibly order dessert and if I ask "what do you want to do?" then I really want to hear your answer. I expect to be treated with respect, not just by someone I'm dating but by everyone and I do myself to extend the same. I don't believe in games. If you have have something to say - for good for for ill to say, say it and I'll do the same. It saves everyone a lot of time and energy that could be better spent on useful things - like watching paint dry or grass grow.

If you're are going to message me because I'm open to casual sex: No I do not want to meet you right this very second it your shady house/car/empty parking garage. That's creepy. When I say casual sex I mean I dont want or need to date you. It could be a one off or a friends with benefits situation but I'm not going to guarantee you sex here on OKCupid. Protocol is as follows: We get a drink/coffee/food in a public place to see if we click physically and if we do then sure, awesome, I'm open to it. Thats not a date so I dont expect you to buy me said whatever. I just expect you to be willing to prove you'll respect me enough to do that. // Until then please remember less is more. There's no need to regale me with graphic details or push me for right-this-second sex. Overly aggressive is not sexy. When we meet, if we have chemistry, things will get physical naturally because I wouldn't have put casual sex on here if I didn't want it. However, if we don't have chemistry or I'm not into it? I'll say so and won't waste your time a second longer than necessary because, as I said, I don't believe in games or bullshit.

Two important caveats that could be deal breakers for you(I did promise honesty):
1)Unfortunately, I am *NOT* sexually attracted to black men. AT ALL. EVER. Gentlemen you are lovely and if you'd like a friend to a movie or an event I'm your gal. However in any kind of romantic relationship - which I'm looking for - be it long term, short term, or just casual sex, sexual desire has to be there. For me, it just isn't. Aesthetically I can see the beauty but the engine just wont start. My apologies but I dont want to waste any time you could spend finding your soulmate on a sure-fire romantic no.
2)In terms of a long-long-term relationship, I'm only really going to be able to settle down with someone Jewish. It's the most important part of my life and it should be the cornerstone of my partner's life too. That said, don't let that stop you. I'm interested in meeting people here in Atlanta, as you can see. If you want to short term date or hook up for something casual and not long term and in no way headed towards "Til Death" - all commers are welcome. Short term dating me has no religious bias but my Judaism is the focus of my life and also it was my grandmother's dying wish that I marry a Jew so - there you have it.

Cheers
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a freelance writer available for the commission and execution of articles, interviews, reviews, essays, fiction and any other forms of literary composition that may or may have yet imaged. At the moment I review TV and movies. Most recently represented my site at Comic-Con International in San Diego. and also following avenues. I write articles and conduct interviews with interesting people about ''stuff Lori, things''. I graduated from with a BA writing and a minor composed of other classes that didn’t start before noon; including The Slavic Vampire, The History of the Deep South in Film, and Sexuality in Antiquity - all of which have already been more useful in real life than Algebra.

I supplement my income and keeps my edge by braving the wilds of Atlanta high school classrooms as a substitute teacher. Which means I may or may not be working any given day. The farther in advance you plan, the more likely I am to be free.
I’m really good at
Communication - writing or talking I cant seem to shut up.
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically I've been told I have a nice smile. People dont usually comment on my décolletage until we know each other a little better. The first thing people notice about me personality wise is the strength of my conviction and my willingness to be open with myself with fairly quickly. Also I'm very talkative.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: My Chemical Romance, Fall Out Boy, Panic At The Disco, Bob Segar, Bob Dylan, Pink Floyd, Led Zepplin, The Joy Formidable, Linkin Park, The Joy Formidable, Green Day, Blink-182, Matt and Kim, Ingrid Michaelson, Lily Allen, Kate Nash, The Blackout, The Electric Six, Peaches, She Wants Revenge, David Bowie, The Rolling Stones, Metallica, Breaking Benjamin, Janis Joplin, The Beatles, Evans Blue, Rise Against, Florence + The Machine, Lady Gaga, Madonna, AFI, Dan Le Sac vs Scroobius Pip, Anberlin, Chevelle, Journey, Beyonce, Ke$ha, The Editors, Weezer, Goo Goo Dolls, TOOL, A Perfect Circle, Say Anything, Muse, The Blow, The Strokes, Nine Inch Nails, Beach Boys, Rob Zombie, Billy Idol, Duran Duran, Disturbed, Elton John, Queen, Everclear, Jefferson Airplane, Fleetwood Mack, Matchbox 20, the Temptations, the Four Tops, the Supremes, System of a Down, Korn, Foo Fighters

Movies: Pulp Fiction, Reservoir Dogs, Kill Bill 1&2, Grindhouse, Fight Club, Snatch, Rockn'Rolla, Penelope, The Girl Next Door, The Road to El Dorado, The Emperors New Groove, High Fidelity, Sandlot, Clerks, Mallrats, Chasing Amy, Dogma, Sunset Boulevard, The Little Mermaid, Kontroll, The Princess Bride, Buying the Cow, Casablanca, The Cabinet of Dr. Caligari, The Mummy, Sucker Punch, Sin City, X-Men First Class, Star Trek Reboot, The Fast and the Furious, Drop Dead Gorgeous, Pitch Black, Star Wars(the original, unfucked with trilogy), Indiana Jones: Raiders of the Lost Ark, Serenity, The Fifth Element, Robocop, Terminator, Escape from New York, Iron Man, Dune, Twelve Monkeys, The Day the Earth Stood Still, Donnie Darko, Inception, The Green Mile, Groundhog Day, Zombieland, Nightmare Before Christmas

Shows: Fringe, Dexter, So You Think You Can Dance, Alphas, The Big Bang Theory, Suits, Entourage, Farscape, How I Met Your Mother, Firefly, Grey's Anatomy, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Dollhouse, Supernatural, The Venture Bros, Archer, Spirited, Doctor Who, Torchwood, Sons of Anarchy, Justified, True Blood, The Borgias, Top Chef(all versions), Star Trek: TOS, That 70s Show, Raising Hope, The Middle Man, South Park
The six things I could never do without
something to write with, something to read, someone to talk to, something to eat, something to drink, something surprising
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future - where I'll be, how I'll get there
On a typical Friday night I am
If I have spare cash and gas - at Trapeze where I've had a membership for a year. I love it there. Worst case scenario I get to enjoy the indoor pool and the liberated environs, best case, I pick up someone(or someones) fun for a few hours.

Otherwise I'm at home working, watching TV/movies, hanging out online because my best friends are have migrated to either the west coast, London, or Australia - seriously - which makes for interesting conversation but a terrible night out. So I'm typically open to suggestions. So maybe I'm waiting for you to ask me out.

OH! This isnt Friday specific but it is an evening thing. I am not into 99.9% of sports, but if its hockey season, I'm probably somewhere trying to coerce a bartender to turn on the Penguins[goPens!]/Blackhawks/Kings/Oilers/Bruins[anyone except the %^&*ing Flyers] vs Whoever game. My nights during hockey season are a valiant quest to find a place where I can drink and enjoy men beating the crap out of each other on ice simultaneously. Yes I know its the South. Yes I know you don't care about hockey. But please turn it on, barkeep? P.S. Loving an opposing team isn't a turn off, insulting Sidney Crosby is.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I still love Britney Spears. The 11 year old girl deep in my heart refuses to apologize for this, even if my adult self is horrified.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You should message me if you know that muppets can be more than funny thanks to Farscape but still love Kermit and Gonzo, if you can love Quentin Tarantino movies but still take him with a grain of salt, if you wave your hand like a Jedi at automatic doors, if you appreciated Lost for the characters more than the mystery, if you know the Black Parade is dead and want to sit Under the Cork Tree then go to the Misty Mountain Top on the Dark Side of the Moon, you've seen at least one episode of every episode of every version of Star Trek(even if you didnt like it all), if you have ever waited in line for 8 or more hours to be on the barricade at a concert, if you've traveled somewhere far away and learned something new, if you're not intimidated by a strong woman, if you love Neil Gaiman and Stephen King, if you can name a comicbook not produced by Marvel or DC, if you agree that vampires shouldn't f*cking sparkle, if you can suit up and be legen-wait for it-dary, if you can make your own happiness, if you know brains and heart matter more than beauty any day.