If you're are going to message me because I'm open to casual sex: No I do not want to meet you right this very second it your shady house/car/empty parking garage. That's creepy. When I say casual sex I mean I dont want or need to date you. It could be a one off or a friends with benefits situation but I'm not going to guarantee you sex here on OKCupid. Protocol is as follows: We get a drink/coffee/food in a public place to see if we click physically and if we do then sure, awesome, I'm open to it. Thats not a date so I dont expect you to buy me said whatever. I just expect you to be willing to prove you'll respect me enough to do that. // Until then please remember less is more. There's no need to regale me with graphic details or push me for right-this-second sex. Overly aggressive is not sexy. When we meet, if we have chemistry, things will get physical naturally because I wouldn't have put casual sex on here if I didn't want it. However, if we don't have chemistry or I'm not into it? I'll say so and won't waste your time a second longer than necessary because, as I said, I don't believe in games or bullshit.
Two important caveats that could be deal breakers for you(I did promise honesty):
1)Unfortunately, I am *NOT* sexually attracted to black men. AT ALL. EVER. Gentlemen you are lovely and if you'd like a friend to a movie or an event I'm your gal. However in any kind of romantic relationship - which I'm looking for - be it long term, short term, or just casual sex, sexual desire has to be there. For me, it just isn't. Aesthetically I can see the beauty but the engine just wont start. My apologies but I dont want to waste any time you could spend finding your soulmate on a sure-fire romantic no.
2)In terms of a long-long-term relationship, I'm only really going to be able to settle down with someone Jewish. It's the most important part of my life and it should be the cornerstone of my partner's life too. That said, don't let that stop you. I'm interested in meeting people here in Atlanta, as you can see. If you want to short term date or hook up for something casual and not long term and in no way headed towards "Til Death" - all commers are welcome. Short term dating me has no religious bias but my Judaism is the focus of my life and also it was my grandmother's dying wish that I marry a Jew so - there you have it.