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36 F New York, NY

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5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs and likes cats

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What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a science-person-turned-journalist, so I write about health, psychology, and public health issues for work. Anything brain-related is fascinating to me, and I also write about yoga and meditation a lot these days. I also have five year old who keeps me pretty busy in the afternoons/evenings.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People often tell me I have some sort of calm aura or vibe about me, which I find funny since I don't particularly feel that way inside.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The short list: Sedaris, Burrows, Hornby, anything Victorian (not that I've read anything for pleasure in a long time). Forest Gump, Snatch, 80s comedies, anything with a smart plot, anything Woody Allen, Chaplin, and Hitchcock. Mumford & Sons, Simon and Garfunkel, Van Morrison, classical. Indian, Mediterranean, Middle Eastern (I'm basically vegan, but am certainly willing to cheat when the mood strikes. UPDATE: I've been cheating a lot recently, strictly for nutritional reasons, of course).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son, the internet, a job, the dog, New York (although we have a love-hate relationship), and coffee. No, ice cream. No, coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The universe. I've recently become a big fan of Neil deGrasse Tyson and Michio Kaku, who totally blow my mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Alternatingly with my son or out with a friend for a drink or food. Pretty low-key. But I'd definitely be up for exploring the city a bit more.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 33–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You're ridiculously funny (sarcasm, dryness, and self-deprecating humor are all acceptable), wordy, self-possessed, have a job, and take life with a grain of salt. A deep curiosity about the world and universe would also be great.