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47 M Chapel Hill, NC

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:50am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
Hi - Thanks for reading :)

A bit about me.

I enjoy art. I am not educated in it and cannot speak well to it except for the unseen affect it has on me. How it makes me feel. Where it takes me. I feel the same about music and drama and scenes in life. Nature, man, woman, technology and the melange which is our existence on this planet.

I enjoy observing human relating and relations. I enjoy observing the influences and conditions which have made us the individuals we have become and how we might grow further from our experiences. I am at times deep and intense. Silly and flippant. Quiet and contemplative. Passionate and sensual. I drink too much coffee and red wine.

I am honest and very observing. A good listener, loving, compassionate and willing, desirous to tell you what I see in you and how, you are special and wonderful and offer the world something that you do not realize.

I would like to meet a self made woman who is confident and enjoys exploring new places, having fun and conversation. I often talk too much and so a woman who can tell me to shut of and just feel it would be helpful :)

I have two boys 7 & 9 half time and so a significant portion of my time and energy goes to them.

I am a professional in the data networking field. I work from home and travel. My career is dynamic and provides opportunity. I am looking into specialization which may allow me to stay more local in years to come.

I encourage you to be open to meeting someone you feel may be of interest fairly soon into the conversation. Spending life and relationship in front of a keyboard is not relating. It's cyber peek-a-boo.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in the Data Networking Industry from home and I do travel a bit.

I'm exploring how I can expand my current Career or find alternatives that will add new dimensions to how I express myself and my talents.
I’m really good at
-Communicating, verbal and written.
-Being the technical interface to not so technical people.
-Matching colors and outfits
-Listening to others
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Like movies that present an alternative view on reality. Thirteenth Floor, The Game, Matrix, The Trumen Show etc.
Although I am not a Trekkie I enjoy the StarTrek Series (TNG, Voyager) and the movies. Liked Money Ball and the Lorax.

Varied Music - Sheryl Crow, KT Tunstall, John Mayer, Jack Johnson, 80s Rock - Billy Squier, Def Leppard, Van Halen, Like Women Vocalist Loreena McKennitt, Mary Chapin Carpenter and others, Like Psycho Acoustic stuff like Steve Roach and others like Liquid Mind, 2002 and more. Not much Rap or Country.

Books - A lot of Alternative Spirituality stuff. Views on love, the nature of existence and knowing yourself. Jed McKenna, Osho....
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-How can I take the next step in my career?
-How I can grow in understanding of myself and others
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with my kids, on a date or at a movie by myself.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You would like to have a nice time out, be treated with respect and maybe be a little silly. (actually no maybe about it)