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48 Chapel Hill, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:46am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and might want more

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My self-summary
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A new profile? Why yes of course! One which will naturally inspire any woman who reads the profile to feel the urge to start a conversation ? Now that would be the secret sauce wouldn't it?

Having done this for a while it seems like we still rely, for the most part, on traditional mechanisms for men and women to meet whether on line or at Whole Foods. Girl attracts guy’s interest. Guy finds the initiative to show interest and make the advance. Guy must decide the perfect message or question to engage girl. Not a one liner, not too much either. Girl decides if she will read message based upon picture. (cuz girls do this too….) Girl decides if the message is appropriate, lame or weird. Girl may at this point view guy’s profile. Guy see’s girl has read profile and waits to see if she will respond. If girl is interested she cannot respond immediately. She must wait the assumed appropriate amount of time. If she does not respond guy must move on as the message of no response is implicit and common.

She responds. Guy gauges response from a one line dead end to something more in-depth and perhaps even asking a responding question. Both are guarded. Viability of the exchange is highly in question. 97.2% die after the initial exchange. At the second exchange statistically the fledgling sprout has a 17% chance of turning into a more in-depth conversation working toward a dramatic and potentially traumatic event, the face to face meeting. Although often a tenable event this is where one must go if he/she is to offer any war stories to their peers and of course actually one day win the super bowl of online dating, find a relationship. But I digress, intensely…

Anyway if you actually read this far thank you. I enjoy going out and would like to find someone to do it with on an ongoing basis. What do they call that anyway? I enjoy Art and music and great conversation. Art walks are great and live music inside and out are prime “going out” events. Should I call it dating? Is that scary? A little fear can make things exciting sometimes…no?

I enjoy Durham and Raleigh most these days. Of course the whole down town Durham scene is cool although I feel in some ways it is jumping the shark now. I honestly am more intrigued by Raleigh right now. I enjoy the scene on Glenwood and Hargett Streets.

I am on a Sales team for a Data Networking company. We consult on and sell devices and services which are used to build the networks that connect computers, smartphones, tablets etc. I work from home and I get to actually see people when I travel. I go to the New Jersey area a fair amount, California, Texas, Chicago etc. On average maybe a week or two a month. It varies.

I enjoy personal travel and just in the last year have been exploring more. I have been to Dublin twice and London and Paris. My view of this country has greatly changed as a result and I look forward to more exploring in the rest of the world.

I have two boys 8 & 10 years old half time. They are great kids, seriously :) they are really fun. If you have kids too that’s great. I realize most women my age either have older ones or they are out of the house and feel like they are done. That’s fine. If you are a younger women with young kids too then we have some common ground beyond ourselves and I have a full appreciation for the responsibilities and needs involved in your life. As well, I have a good working relationship with their mom. There is no drama.

I am interested in a woman who is independent and self-supporting. I feel most comfortable if we both have strong active lives and come together because we enjoy each other and not for a convenience of needs. I honestly just won’t go there. I am definitely open to a long term relationship with the right woman. This would be an equal and partner that can meet me in the middle.
What I’m doing with my life
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Raising two awesome boys half time, looking for creative outlets and working in the Data Networking Industry. I work from home and travel. I also like to travel for pleasure. This year I've been to Paris, London, the Midwest and the Bahamas and will go back to Dublin in November.
I’m really good at
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-Communicating, verbal and written.
-Being the technical interface to not so technical people.
-Matching colors and outfits
-Balancing on a high stool
-Listening to others
The first things people usually notice about me
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Smile, Voice, Eyes, hair, glasses, BBQ sauce on my cheek......
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Like movies that present an alternative view on reality but I don't watch a lot of movies or any TV really. That said I am up for it now and again. Don't care for Horror.

Varied Music - lately it's club music like Deadmouse and i am into Storm Large. It varies over time. No, not stuck on 80s rock :O)

Books - A lot of Alternative Spirituality stuff. Views on love, the nature of existence and knowing yourself. Jed McKenna, Osho....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My Kids
-Red Wine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-How to clean up my inbox.
-Looking for new creative endeavors
-How I can grow in understanding of myself and others
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with my kids, on a date or sitting on the front porch with a glass of wine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get pedicures.....but NO polish!!
You should message me if
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-You were a member of a traveling Sesame Street entertainment group in the 90's
-Are a girl, are willing to dress like a girl, have fashionable taste in shoes and don't chew tobacco