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48 M Chapel Hill, NC

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:36am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
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If you see me come up but wonder why I live so far away it means I am likely in your area on business. If you are interested send me a message.

I am happy and secure alone but I enjoy dating, meeting new people and learning about others. I enjoy the company of women and what men and women share with and add to each other. I don’t want to try and make anything happen but I am ready and available when it does.

I believe in there being something much more to each of us than this. I believe each of us is the manifestation of our soul and I desire for connections at that level. That's not to imply the common use of the word soulmate. I dislike assumptions and implications. I admire openness, truth and the willingness to take the vulnerable risk of exploring. If we meet, the first time I would like us to consider deep eye gazing for at least a couple of minutes. If you are not conformable with this I absolutely understand however at this stage for me romantic potential requires the ability for a connection at the soul level. I am hopeful that stating this here will assist us both in the vetting process.

I enjoy art. I am not educated in it and cannot speak well to it except for the unseen effect it has on me. How it makes me feel. Where it takes me. I feel the same about music and drama and scenes in life. nature, man, woman, technology and the mélange which is our existence on this planet. I enjoy observing human relating and relations. I enjoy observing the influences and conditions which have made us the individuals we have become and how we might grow further from our experiences.

I am at times deep and intense. Silly and flippant. Quiet and contemplative. Passionate and sensual. I drink too much coffee and red wine. I am honest and very observing. A good listener, loving, compassionate and willing, desirous to tell you what I see in you and how, you are special and wonderful and offer the world something that you do not realize.

I like meeting a self made woman who is confident in her own power and identity and enjoys exploring new places, having fun and conversation. I am desirous of physical, mental and emotional intimacy. I understand the need for honesty and requirement for a feeling of safety in opening up in this way and being vulnerable but I do not agree with sex being traded for an assumption of security or attachment. Honesty and openness are key to relating although I admit these are challenging in meeting new people however we are out there. Openness with others starts with openness with self.

I do not like labels but pressed I would respond that my spiritual perspectives tend strongly toward non-duality. That said I honor the path of each individual and believe we are here for experience around which there most often is a script and structure. I am not dogmatic and seek those who are accepting of others views but followers of their own truth whatever that may be.

I have two boys 8 and 10 half time and so a significant portion of my time and energy goes to them. I am a professional in the data networking field. I work from home and travel a fair amount. My career is dynamic and provides opportunity.

I encourage you to be open to meeting someone you feel may be of interest fairly soon into the conversation. Spending life and relationship in front of a keyboard is not relating. It's cyber peek-a-boo.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in the Data Networking Industry from home and I travel a fair amount at times.

I'm exploring how I can expand my current Career or find alternatives that will add new dimensions to how I express myself and my talents.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Communicating, verbal and written.
-Being the technical interface to not so technical people.
-Matching colors and outfits
-Listening to others
The first things people usually notice about me
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Smile, Voice, Eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Like movies that present an alternative view on reality. Thirteenth Floor, The Game, Matrix, The Trumen Show etc.
Although I am not a Trekkie I enjoy the StarTrek Series (TNG, Voyager) and the movies. Liked Money Ball and the Lorax.

Varied Music - Sheryl Crow, KT Tunstall, John Mayer, Jack Johnson, 80s Rock - Billy Squier, Def Leppard, Van Halen, Like Women Vocalist Loreena McKennitt, Mary Chapin Carpenter and others, Like Psycho Acoustic stuff like Steve Roach and others like Liquid Mind, 2002 and more. Not much into Country although I like Bliuegrass.

Books - A lot of Alternative Spirituality stuff. Views on love, the nature of existence and knowing yourself. Jed McKenna, Osho....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My Kids
-Red Wine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-How can I take the next step in my career?
-How I can grow in understanding of myself and others
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with my kids, on a date or sitting on the front porch with a glass of wine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get pedicures.....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You would like to have a nice time out, be treated with respect and maybe be a little silly. (actually no maybe about it)