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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:32pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Has kids, and might want more
My self-summary
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Cute, fun professional guy who works from home and travels. I enjoy a good night out, conversation, some art, music, drinks, dinner. I like to be funny and fun. No reason to bother going out if you don't have a good time whether it is the only time or one of many. Being a little sweet to anybody you cross paths with makes the world a better place.

I am drawn to self confident women. I admire those comfortable in their sense of self which are also willing to be vulnerable and view life as a continued opportunity for exploration, experience and growth. Age and race are irrelevant.

I Enjoy dating but am also open to something longer term when the match is right and grows. My desire is to share love and connection. To be seen and understood and to see and understand someone deeply. The circumstances around that are less important. I am not looking for an arrangement of needs or conveniences but rather a deep connection.

I know what I want. I see women as equals and expect the same in return. Open, honest and clear communication. Don't be afraid to show affection or say it's not right and I will do the same.
What I’m doing with my life
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Raising two awesome boys half time, looking for creative outlets and working in the Data Networking Industry. I work from home and travel. I also like to travel for pleasure. In 2014 I went to Paris, London, the Midwest, the Bahamas and Dublin as well as my usual business haunts in the US. In 2015 I hope to make it back to Europe, if possible, twice.
I’m really good at
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-Communicating, verbal and written.
-Being the technical interface to not so technical people.
-Listening to others.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Smile, Voice, Eyes, hair, glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like movies that present an alternative view on reality but I don't watch a lot of movies or any TV really. That said I am up for it now and again. Don't care for Horror.

Varied Music - lately it's club music like Deadmou5 and Ellie Goulding. As well i've always enjoyed big female voices and am currently into Storm Large and Morgan James. I am also digging deep, heavy sound track like stuff from Zack Hemsey a band named Hybrid and others. It varies over time and with my inner journey.

Books - Currently "Fear no Evil" and "Gaga Feminism." A lot of Alternative Spirituality stuff. Views on love, the nature of existence and knowing yourself. Jed McKenna, Osho, J. Krishnamurti and others.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My Kids
-Reflection/meditation/meaningful discussion
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-The pursuit of joy
-Meaningful Connection
-How I can grow in understanding of myself and others
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with my kids, on a date or sitting on the front porch with a glass of wine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get pedicures.....but NO polish!!
You should message me if
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-Are a sweetheart, honest and open
-Interested in making a real connection in a healthy way
-Have a real interest in Inner growth and enjoy deep analytical discussion