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51 Indianapolis, IN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38–62
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:50am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from space camp
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am a liberal professional that loves to have fun but works pretty hard and tries to finish what I start. I was transplanted here and haven't met many people since then.

I've lived a lot of weird places like SE Asia and Central America. I've spent a lot of time kicking up my heels but I have also held very responsible jobs.

If I had time, I enjoy playing most sports. I enjoy nature. I eat my fish but only hunt with a camera. I make camping more comfortable and fun than most folks, but I don't mind getting a room at the end of the day either. I used to see groups of shows by folks like Phish and the Grateful Dead (an interesting way to see the country). I don't do video games or chat online much. I only see movies in the theater if someone else wants to watch something. I am "Daddy" half of the time. We all pick up baggage. I don't plan on leaving any on your doorstep.

I have learned a bit about this online dating deal. If you are out to bag as many guys as possible, please pass me by. I need to care about the people I get close to and have them care about me or else what is the point? I like the term, cuddle buddy, but I am flexible :) I realize that before you created a login here, you had to reject every guy that lives in your world. So now you are selecting from a menu of guys for those qualities that you think you want. I don't do well as a menu choice. I have/enjoy too many contradictory traits/diversions. I am sure you will find things I like that you won't. As we get older, we fill in the blanks of things we will and won't accept. If you are looking for a "soul mate" that perfectly fills in your blanks, please skip me. Thanks.

O.K. So, I over time, I have been asked a bunch of questions. Here are some:

What is your favorite color? The purple in the sky just before dawn.

What is you favorite fruit? Pineapple.

What is your favorite time of the year? Those wonderful days that pop up at the end of winter that make you feel like spring.

What is your pet peeve? Incompetence followed closely by intolerance.

Dogs or cats? Dogs are my favorites, but I usually get along well with most living, non-human critters.

Boxers or briefs? Briefs unless I am in an unusual mood... Never boxers with jeans. Of course, silk boxers go well with satin sheets :)

Why are you here? I came here for work. It is not a sociable place. Finding new friends as an adult seems to be a challenge.

Who do you want to meet? I would like to meet people that would like to meet me.

More if asked...


So, I have been reading profiles. My goodness! They remind me of the SUV commercials climbing mountains and fording streams. Who has that sort of time to go to the beach, camping, boating, concerts and 50 other activities? How do you do it?

The description of a homeless guy: Likes camping, eating out and enjoys nature :)

I know that when I am drunk, I am not all that sexy (no matter what my opinion might be at the time. :) ) but I guess the beer commercials sell a different sort of beer.

Why do people request liars and cheaters to not write? If someone is a liar, wouldn't they write so they could lie about it? If you are looking for someone respectably neutered but
still want them to do exciting things and be interesting, you likely wouldn't much care for me.

Good luck to everyone.
What I’m doing with my life
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I guess I am looking for friends and buddies in this cold part of the country.
I’m really good at
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I am above average at most things but don't guess I am "really good at" very much :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know. I try to hide my third eye. Maybe the hump on my back?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My taste in music? I like Rock, Blues, Jazz (not so much the heavy brass horns), Bluegrass, Country, usually when they shut up and play music more than crow (especially musicians like Roy Acuff), Folk, Fusion, New Age, classical (not to much with strings though), Psychedelic, some Gospel, and other sorts of music that I likely left off. Most rap reminds me of Beat poets on an uncreative day but some R&B carry a pretty good bass line IMHO.
Food. Lets see. I like mango and pineapple sherbert, but spumoni is good too. I like crunchy peanut butter with my banana and mayo sandwich. :) I can cook about anything but don't see the value in most complicated recipes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I need the basics. I never counted them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
all the things I think about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
trying to get into some sort of trouble.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I believe that weed should be as legal as alcohol and that military grade weapons should not be legal.
You should message me if
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If you want to message me.