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28 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 23–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 30
Asian, Middle Eastern
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am a bellydancer, sommelier, and historical fiction writer: "the diva of all nerds." If it's ensemble improvised anything - I'm down. I am a rational anarchist and a tree-hugging hippie, but I shave my pits. I am a consensual non-monogamist, a 1.5 on the Kinsey scale, and quite friendly as long as you are literate and polite.

Thou art god and I am god and all that groks is god.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living abroad in France and Morocco with this handsome devil. As much as I hate "couple-y" profiles, it's misleading to pretend I'm not, you know, living on another continent with him.

I use okcupid (and couchsurfing) for scratching up social groups with common interests, and may do that again when I return to the states, but for the winter I honestly only logged in to see if they offered me any of the new sexuality and gender options. They didn't :( :( :(

There's a historical fiction project, improvised tribal style bellydance, a capella music and a Commedia troupe for Renaissance Faires, work as a somm, and an urban b+b with a vertical garden out back. Some part of me has an illusion that I will fit in jumping horses, ballet and French classes, and learning to sail a tall ship.

If it took me two months to respond to your message, this section is why.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Attempting to usurp space-time coordinates already inhabited by furniture. Being snarky on the internet: How To Write To Women On Okcupid
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a social gravitational force approaching that of a singularity. For nerds, anyway.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Social manifestos disguised as scifi. (Joan Vinge, Robert Heinlein.) Anthropology, ecology, and history nonfic. (Jared Diamond, Michael Pollan.) Historical fiction (Sharon Kay Penman.)

Food: I get the majority of my food from Farmer Tom's, Cedar Valley Sustainable, and Provenance. Honorable mention: Jam, Rootstock, Owen&Engine, Longman&Eagle, Telegraph, The Bristol, the Barrelhouse Flat, and oyster happy hour at Shaw's.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
People to communicate with by any medium (verbal, visual, physical, or musical.) The kick comes from people, buddy boy.

That's the only thing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a giant crush on Zevran. What, it's too much to ask for a smartass bisexual elf assassin philanderer?
You should message me if
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* You are slim and pretty
with angular features, a full compliment of hair on top of your head and minimal-to-none on your body. See: bltoaster, Harrelll, the Warwick University Rowing Team Calendar
* You are smart, well-socialized, and not shy. Professional performers usually fit this bill. I particularly get along well with ones who work Faires.
* Bonus points if you sing collegiate a capella. I also <3

*you are extremely independent and assertive. The women I love all tend to be strong, fabulous divas.
*Despite your intelligence, you like ridiculously girly things, like thrifting and getting our nails done, only somewhat ironically. Real-life lovely ladies: fatalis_vox, denell12. Take us on a double/triple date.
*you are a serious dancer. I may or may not have a love/hate ballerina fetish.