i guess i'm a survivor, something needed for this planet. i've been widowed twice, and it doesn't get easier the second time. each time has changed me for the better. i'm much better at showing love and much more patient because i've learned what is really important in life. i still have things that are important to me and if someone doesn't share those, they are still going to be important. but there are a lot less of them and i will still weigh them against my partner's wishes. what are they you might be thinking. it seems that baseball, music, stuff that makes me laugh. i'm a typical guy. i like to please my woman, just not me by the way.
life these days mostly consists of going to work and watching baseball on tv. i always enjoyed staying mostly at home, but do get the urge to go out once in a while. this time of year is to minor league baseball games. in the winter it's mostly to watch basketball games. i also enjoy oldies and smooth jazz concerts. i've worked as an off-ice official for my minor league hockey team for 12 years. i enjoy the mundane like going to the store, paying bills, talking about the day and getting a listening ear when i need a boost.
i'm looking for a woman who is understanding, forgiving and supportive on the inside (she should expect the same from me). on the outside i like long hair, but i'm not going to be real fussy. just to let you know what i consider attractive and helps me. it's a little bit of give and take.
i guess if there's anything else, please ask.