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aword

27 / M / gay / Single

Storrs, Connecticut

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 9" (1.77m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Malay (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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I am fun, thoughtful, and jaunty.

My Self-Summary

T-shirt and jeans type of guy here and is amateur to real relationship, so i would have taken it slow. love cuddling on a couch and watch movies, talking about the day and night story. I love to eat good stuff. I can eat a tonnes and doesnot get fat, I know.... please don't hate me for that. I can be sometimes sarcastically charming or say some goofy jokes or such. But at times I enjoy the serenity of silence in a room reading book or just listening to music. and love mushroom and asparagus..

If you wanna chat or be friend, you are more than welcomed to message me, having another true friend to care and being cared is priceless.
I am in graduate school now. Kinda take up all my time, still I ll be there for my family or friends.. will get hold of all if i could. I'm also accepting donations for the "donate-to-a-frugal-college-student" fund in order to make it better. Remember kids: school loans are evil... that's from my undergrad. But my grad school is generous enough for me, paid for everything, sigh relieved.

most of the time I am a thinker and a good listener,but would like talk alot about things that interest me and I know alot, and also like to listen to things i don't know.

I've tried alot of new things lately, and didn't realize good at any of those, trying to pick one to finish better. like sailing, fishing, golfing, rock climbing, violin.

I frequent to gym, and msg if you wanna exchange some workout tips. would definitely welcome that.

I guess I'm looking to meet new people, roughly similar age/interest/etc. Beyond that, I dunno gimme a shout. Should you like what you read, give me a msg.

P.S. love dogs, dislike cats
"When I see an adult on a bicycle, I do not despair for the future of the human race."
~H.G. Wells

What I’m doing with my life

Stop thinking and start doing it, Live to the fullest. Going to study and work damn hard to.... EAT GREAT FOOD!! culinary badass like Adam Richman travels around the United States sampling some of America's best cuisine

I'm planning on brushing up on my French and sailing.

I’m really good at

listening, cooking, eating and relaxing

The first things people usually notice about me

my brooding eyes

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I read some books, my favorite authors are sidney sheldon, john grisham and etc. it could be random. the one I am reading now are books from Robert Nozick. Not sure I can finish them in this summer. and economics book.

Movies I like are Sex and the city, will and grace, southpark, transformer, v for vendetta crash, gandhi, movies that have a message or funny or make me think.

I like all sort of music... but not a big fan of metal rock.

I love flavorful food, French, Thai, Malaysian.

The six things I could never do without

my family, my friends, my sleep, my ipod and my Internet.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

my family, my friends and my studies. yea.. and my life... does it has a transversality condition.

On a typical Friday night I am

Hanging out with friends in a bar over some beer or a night dinner. or if I have a bf, would walk around or cuddle on couch or think about why I always procrastinate.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i guess for most gay guys, the most private should be admitting they're gay, likewise here.

You should message me if

you are thinking you have somewhat in common or you want to know more about me.