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48 Ilkeston, UK Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 19
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Less than $20,000
Mostly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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I'm a born submissive woman looking for an experienced Dom.
I am fairly new to the scene and ready to learn more but I know myself quite well so have a good idea of the kind of man I need in my life.
Though I have not had a great deal of experience with men up to this point most of it has not been good.
I have been alone for 22 years, raising 3 children by myself and one of my 4 grand children.
I would describe myself as an old fashioned housewife and feel I have a lot to offer the right person. Sadists need not bother messaging me as my body does not produce endorphins so my pain threshold is quite low. As a result of this I do not subspace from pain and only engage in moderate impact play, much preferring sensation play.
I am looking for a complete relationship so would rather not hear from married men. ( that includes living together)
A more comprehensive profile is on fetlife, I'm Trinity_Doula there.
Thank you for looking at my profile :-)
What I’m doing with my life
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trying to figure it out! if any one has the answers let me know
I’m really good at
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taking care of people :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
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my sense of humour!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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sci-fi, horror movies, any good historical/paranormal romance novel(dirty porn!) In addition I enjoy documentaries and non-fiction such as history, biology,anthropology, physiology and philosophy. I am also the best cook in the world...just ask any of my kids,neighbors etc...! i love rock/heavy metal music and most stuff from the 80's.Any food i don't have to cook is good and I love my home made white choc chip cookies!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my fags
cup of tea
peace and quiet ( usually in a bubble bath.)
love of my friends and family
internet ( but rather new to it)
*please note not necessarily in order!*
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
just about everything!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
reading a book or watching a non gory horror!(after the kids go to bed and my mates finally go home!!) Spending too much time chatting on line. I used to go out every other Friday, I miss that :-(
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Things most people don't know ( I don't really have any secrets, ) none of my black socks are a pair, I can't spell and I'm useless with computers.
I have been here since March 2011 and out of the hundreds who have messaged me I have met 3 guys from this site, 2 nutters and one lying married man :-(

updated April 2014
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you have read and understood my profile