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47 F Derby, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:59pm
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
I'm a born submissive woman looking for an experienced Dom.
I am fairly new to the scene and ready to learn more but I know myself quite well so have a good idea of the kind of man I need in my life.
Though I have not had a great deal of experience with men up to this point most of it has not been good.
I have been alone for 22 years, raising 3 children by myself and one of my 3 grand children.
I would describe myself as an old fashioned housewife and feel I have a lot to offer the right person. Sadists need not bother messaging me as my body does not produce endorphins so my pain threshold is quite low. As a result of this I do not subspace from pain and only engage in moderate impact play, much preferring sensation play.
I am looking for a complete relationship so would rather not hear from married men. ( that includes living together)
A more comprehensive profile is on fetlife, I'm Trinity_Doula there.
Thank you for looking at my profile :-)
What I’m doing with my life
trying to figure it out! if any one has the answers let me know
I’m really good at
taking care of people :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
sci-fi, horror movies, any good historical/paranormal romance novel(dirty porn!) In addition I enjoy documentaries and non-fiction such as history, biology,anthropology, physiology and philosophy. I am also the best cook in the world...just ask any of my kids,neighbors etc...! i love rock/heavy metal music and most stuff from the 80's.Any food i don't have to cook is good and I love my home made white choc chip cookies!
The six things I could never do without
my fags
cup of tea
peace and quiet ( usually in a bubble bath.)
love of my friends and family
internet ( but rather new to it)
*please note not necessarily in order!*
I spend a lot of time thinking about
just about everything!
On a typical Friday night I am
reading a book or watching a non gory horror!(after the kids go to bed and my mates finally go home!!) Spending too much time chatting on line. I used to go out every other Friday, I miss that :-(
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Things most people don't know ( I don't really have any secrets, ) none of my black socks are a pair, I can't spell and I'm useless with computers.
I have been here since March 2011 and out of the hundreds who have messaged me I have met 3 guys from this site, 2 nutters and one lying married man :-(
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 37–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you have read and understood my profile