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awwhatthehell

48 M Madison, WI

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:39pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Hospitality
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Thanks for checking out my profile. This part is looooong, but if you read it you just might get an idea of me a bit beyond "I like sunsets." and cookie-cutter stuff like that.

Concerning the flying side-kick picture posted: I joke that I am proficient in "ha lee wuud kung fu" but I'm not a martial artist nor do I espouse violence. The image is relevant to my personality though, as I do appreciate and aspire to kinetic style, and, I suppose, grace.

I picture myself as an easy going man who is fascinated by the human condition and awed and enthused by the beauty and complex interconnectivity of this thing we call existence. I imagine my strong points as being my sense of humor, my personality, my intellect, and my perceptiveness. I am also loyal and honest---occasionally to my own detriment.

I see many kinds of humor within the serious to the absurd, and I love to ferret it out with, or for others. This can certainly result in the mirthful detachment of some localized posteriors.

I love camping, picnicking or perhaps mostly just rambling around and exploring in the outdoors. Conversely, I appreciate what the big city has to offer, especially when it provides for culinary/cultural experiences I've not had before.

I enjoy and respect socially concocted notions such as fashion, etiquette, and tradition. But am perhaps a bit too independent to be unquestioningly bound by them or to take them inordinately seriously, unless respect for others calls for it.

I was raised by a feminist. This has made what I hold as its positive mark in my creed.

I eschew crappy food that pretends not to be crappy. A fast food hamburger is not terribly pretentious. Some store bought cheesecake with a name like "Artisan Ovens" and a three finger ingredients list, is.

I am interested in, and like to prepare and consume healthy food. But occasional unhealthy food is not beneath me by any means.

I do have discerning tastes regarding many things and am pretty particular oft times, but I am not a snob nor do I need those tastes to be constantly fulfilled.

I would not call myself very materialistic.

When I hang with someone, and we resonate with one another, I find that our time together is often like a series of little adventures.

Perhaps adventure awaits?
What I’m doing with my life
In 2008 I traversed, exclusively on foot, 3600 miles from coast to coast across the united states. This took me 13 months.

I did so because I wanted to connect and converse with all kinds of Americans, both face to face and via a website I set up.

My main objective was to communicate with, and encourage conversation with and amongst said folks, about what might be defined as the evolution of the human perspective or, in other words, the growth of how we as human beings see ourselves... each other... our civilization... the natural world.

It has been hard to get to the following due to some of the life situations I've been dealing with, but things seem to be settling down a bit. So my overall present life goal is to improve (vastly) the website associated with my walk, and to write a book about my journey, the concepts that compelled me, and the people and situations I found myself immersed in.
I’m really good at
Being modest. So, sorry; won't say any more.

Okay just kidding. Let's see. The following is mostly based on hearsay.

I am apparently a pretty fair conversationalist. I'm good at understanding people and situations. I've been told I can be pretty dang entertaining. I am a pretty innovative thinker and problem solver. 'Ts been said I'm a good dancer (been said I'm a bad one too, but much less often; truth be told I believe I'm both, depending mostly on my mood, and, I suppose the eye of the beholder factors in as well). I am a fairly decent singer. I am presently a damn loyal friend, brother, and son. I have a prodigious capacity for loyalty to a mate although obviously this remains currently untapped. I have a fairly high level of physical prowess, and I am "really good" at enjoying that.
The first things people usually notice about me
My nickname could be "Slim". Incidentally, the option "Thin" under my profile "details" was, I suppose, the "Body type" that most closely describes me. But I suggest "slim, but muscular" would be closer to the mark.

Anyway, that I'm a fairly eloquent and oft times animated speaker.

Yet often a deadpan humorist.

That I can be quite observant.

That I'm a lot more rough and ready than it might initially seem (oh--wait--that means one o' the first things people might "notice" is I don't appear to be so rough an' ready. Ah well; read between the lines).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh man; I don't really have any real favorites and not a lot of what I've liked is coming to mind. I liked monty Python's Meaning of Life though Im not a huge Python fan in general. I liked the fast runner, Brazil, Fargo, No country for Old Men, V for Vendetta.
My tastes run the gamut really, but I don't go in for pretension and although action movies are somewhat of a guilty pleasure for me, I'm not one at all for a lot of REAL WORLD type violence as spectacle.
The six things I could never do without
Bout all of us could do without just about anything other than food, water, shelter and clothing, but life would be pretty bleak for me without:
Love.
Companionship.
Hope.
Truth.
Beauty.
Justice.
And let's just throw in wonder.
Yeah I know; kinda typical really.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Human relationships and behavior, and the elusive hearts of our greatest issues, from the interpersonal to the international.
On a typical Friday night I am
No such thing really.
I could be doing any number of things on my perpetually growing "to do" list. I could be having or cooking dinner and/or perhaps watching a movie with a friend or few. I could be reading a book. I could be dancing, or playing pool, or sharing a drink, or wandering in the woods or the streets in the moonlight, or standing 'round a fire.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Umm... lessee... How 'bout that I, like pretty much everybody, am regularly impacted by some brand of fear. Fear of ignorance; fear of illness; fear of loneliness; fear of vulnerability; fear of judgment; etc.

BUT, what really matters is how one responds to fear, yes? With this in mind, it has been said, by many of those closest to me, that I am a pretty courageous individual.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Firstly you are open-minded and are courageous enough to actually reach out in light of something appealing you've seen or read here.

I of course appreciate a partner who holds values similar to mine, but also is possessed of a few twists and turns that can surprise, delight, and provide for perspective and straight-up education.

If you want more of what I resonate with, read on.

I myself am by no means perfect nor am I looking for a perfect person. This life can be any combination of pursuing, achieving, and loosing ground on who we want to be. But someone who is comprised of or sincerely aspires to any of the following certainly gets my notice.

You are fit or trim, adventurous, independently minded, and strong yet also value your femininity.

You understand all are helplessly bound by a reasonable amount of human fallibility, and have the ability to at once honor and forgive this in your partner and yourself.

You can be spontaneous, and you lack an extreme amount of reservation.

You are enthusiastic about outdoor things like camping and picnics and adventures.

Your relative inclinations tend to be the opposite of prudish.

You tend to be the opposite of irritable—the alternative being, for me, one of the most unpleasant things to experience.

You believe what fulfills a relationship is not image, status nor material things.

You sincerely, earnestly strive to be honest, not only with your partner but with yourself.

You value straight communication and will not hold something important back because it is difficult to broach.

When it seems your partner can't see the forest for the trees, you aim to make your response respectful and gentle.