I'm looking for someone who "takes care of them selfs" which we all know translates to "average" unattractive or unathletic people need not apply,But at least they are honest and say it with style and a hint of tact. Only because reality dictates that there ne
eds to be an amount of physical attraction for the reaction to accur. I am dependable,honest,loyal,down to earth....etc. Well, who really views them selfs as flaky,deceitful,cheating,self absorbed....etc.? But! if we are totally honest with ourselves, we have all hurt someone at some point. But, by far my favorites are the ones that say "if you are a liar or a player or just looking for a "hookup" keep moving". LOL as if anyone finds those qualities desirable.Or even more ridiculous to believe that someone looking to use someone is going to say "Demn, I better keep moving cause this one isn't buying what I'm selling" The truth is we have all been lied to,hurt,betrayed by those we have loved. We are all damaged.It does not make us broken.All of us carry baggage of previous pain,it does not mean that the next one we trust will treat us with the same disrespect, So when you say you don't want anyone with "drama or baggage" you may want to limit yourself to the 21 and younger crowd. Before I was ever cheated on I trusted freely and easily. Now I am convinced trust is earned, if it was easy it wouldn't be so special.I try to look at it a different way.how can I truly apppreciate someone being truly good to me without a frame of reference. So since I refuse to lower my standards, and the bar scene is a waste of time for me to pursue.here I am. We all want the same thing.That warm spot next to us when we sleep, that voice that tells us everything will be alright.That attraction that leaves us breathless after every touch. That comfort from knowing that this person will never leave and will always be there for us.The simple pleasure of watching TV and feeling fulfilled without the need for a single word to be uttered between you.Someone who "Gets You", it is an amazing thing to be able to laugh with that person at something no one else thinks is funny and feeling that connection. Someone who understands that sometimes nothing can be done to help but when they stroke your hair it doesn't seem to matter.If you are still reading this I hope it made you smile.And if you are interested dont feel like you have to write a lengthy thought provoking response,just drop me a line and say hello. Isn't that how normal people meet?