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30 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:41pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English, Chinese (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Just moved up to Oakland from LA. It's nice in the Bay Area but home will always be in LA for me.

I am an easy going person who doesn't take life too seriously. I am definitely a people person and love being around people. I am also someone you can turn to if you need someone to talk to.

I consider myself to be pretty creative and and enjoy good art and music. I am always looking for good music. I can be pretty spontaneous at times too - that's when my creative side comes out.

I love staying active by going hiking, playing basketball or runninng. Although I don't get out enough, I love nature and would like to spend more time outdoors.

Everyday for me is trying to live my life for Jesus.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently working at a charter scho in downtown Oakland. I was originally a PE teacher, but they needed my Chinese speaking skills, Cantonese to be more exact, since the front desk admin is not at the school anymore.

I love the kids at the school and getting to work with them everyday is a challenge but gratifying at the same time.

Although I'm here now I am considering getting a degree in physical therapy or occupational therapy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having a great sense of humor about life. I don't get flustered very easily, and I am always a good friend.

Also I beat box. I can put Justin Timberlake to shame. Just don't make me compare abs with him. That's just weird.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Once I grew a thick beard and that's all people noticed. So I shaved it off because I want people to see my sparkling personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books? Heard of a book called Bible? A few movies I can watch on repeat are Star Wars, Inception, and Back to the Future. I am also into indie films like Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, and throw in some Wes Anderson please!

I got my How I Met Your Mother finale and I'm pretty happy, unlike most people. I watch a lot of HGTV and Food Network, and I gotta have my Lakers. Currently also watching the Walking Dead, Portlandia, and Orange is the New Black. Oh, and I hope you like Conan humor because I watch him all the time.

Music is very important to me and I'd like someone who can share my taste in music. I also like going to concerts at the smaller venues like Wiltern or Roxy and I love Hotel Café in LA. I'm into Radiohead, Arcade Fire, Grizzly Bear, Empire of the Sun, and The xx just to name a few, but I like all music from 80s new wave to old school rap. Hopefully you have an appreciation for 90s slow jamz like Keith Sweat and Baby Face. Damn I miss that stuff. When there is nothing good to listen to, nothing beats jazz music. It's not music but I also love listening to NPR.

As for food, I will eat pretty much anything from a good burrito to Chinese, korean and even Indian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. God, 2. good friends who get me, 3. sports (or really just the Lakers), 4. Good music, 5. cheap ethnic food, 6. Godzilla and other forms of ridiculousness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My damn future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
For 5 years, I spent every Friday night helping out with the youth group at my church. I know, I'm such a good person. BUT kids be damned, I need to go live my young single life while it lasts! Now I'm on this site to meet new people, and hopefully spend Friday nights going out instead.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like to sing and beat box while I am driving alone.
You should message me if
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You love to have fun and don't mind spending time with a very goofy guy like myself. If you are a beautiful, kind, good-humored, lover of God, I would love to take you out to coffee, dinner, Karaoke or whatever!