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59 Surprise, AZ Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 54-65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:42am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Has kid(s)
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm NOT looking for a hookup. I'm searching for a life partner with a man who is strictly monogamous.

I'm a people person, love music, movies, travel whether for a day trip (I'd like to see my native Arizona again which I've been away from for so long) or some distant destination, love to dance, ride horseback, used to play a lot of sports, loved to garden but haven't done much since I moved back to the the valley, but am working on it. I can cook quite well, but have been somewhat out of practice since I've been by myself for 10 years now. I've been told I do bake some great pies too.

I grew up in the agricultural area northwest of Phoenix and I've returned to that area though there are mostly houses now. I loved summers up north (out of the heat) fishing, exploring, catching bullfrogs, watching my siblings tanning a rattlesnake skin. I grew up riding horses, living amongst a myriad of farm animals, citrus groves and other agriculture (even picked a little cotton as a child), pets and exotic pets.

I like most movie genres, photography, last read was "Daughter of Fortune", before that "The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo" series, and saw the movie too.

I like hearing/reading about what is going on behind the scenes and what is shaping our lives. I like information, the more the better.

I try to treat people the way I like to be treated, love holding hands, and cuddling, and am affectionate and love affection. I'm looking for a long term relationship with a man who is strictly monogamous.
What I’m doing with my life
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Looking forward to more of life's experiences around each bend in the road.
I’m really good at
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Listening and communicating, being there for the ones I care about, seeing the nuances -- not just the black and white...
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height and my ready smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Jane Eyre, Lucifer's Hammer, Clan of the Cave Bear series, Daughter of Fortune, most kinds of movies -- thought "J. Edgar" was fascinating so need to read about him now-- "The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel" is quite the human relationship movie, "Gravity" was incredible action/sci fi flick; " 12 Years a Slave" was so good and Tom Hanks did a great job as "Captain Phillips," but I've read what the crew said actually happened so there was a LOT of artistic license to make the guy likeable/honorable, have yet to see the new "Hunger Games" and other movies out. I like most music except for heavy metal, and still listen to top 40 to hear the newest artists and their music. I like all kinds of foods and am always willing to try new foods -- as long as it's not moving -- especially hot and spicy Thai, Indian, Italian and Mexican! Prefer hole-in-the-wall restaurants, rather than glitzy places, if the food is good.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
information (but then that's seven!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Friends, family and my son; and what's going on in the world (politics, economy, ecology), and my native Arizona (my gringo side of my family has been here since the 1860's, and the Spanish/Mexican side before the US/Arizona was here). The now deplorable state of Arizona's public school system.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Oftentimes home, or sometimes out with friends for movies or meals. I want to be out dancing and experiencing the nightlife, seeing new and old things and sharing life with that special someone!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Since I'm not looking for a one night stand or a hookup, I need time to get to know a man and to start developing a relationship of mutual respect, trust, and caring before I'll take the leap in the sack...
You should message me if
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you like an honest, intelligent, good hearted, attractive, affectionate woman.